Am I wrong to feel,dismissed? Lies where told, cps took my children?

Question

I am a parent of 2 boys,15 and 5 yr. old. Feb.4,2006 I allowed them to go with relatives of mine.( w/doubt) For super bowl weekend. I ask my sister to not have my kids at, a known pedephiles home. She told me where they would be, and what they would be doing. I agreed under those conditions to let them go with her. I called everyday to see if everything was ok. The last day, which was the 6th. I called her cell to see when she was bringing the boys home. I got no answer. I called to the house where I said they could not visit. Sure enough, she had took my 15yr. old to the movie. My 5yr. old was there along with her 4 children all under 10yrs. of age. I went off, I called her cell and left the message stating, this is why I don't have my chldren with them. And My oldest son is in deep trouble, a** cuttin time! She would not return my calls. My Mom called me 4 times, saying calm down. I told her if they don't get my children back home where they belong. All hell will break loose!

My oldest son says, I'm to strick. No cell, cable,and definitley my space. There's a diference from home life and the way of the world. Children are gifts from God, and should be guided to know the diference between right and wrong! The decision is still left up to the individual. I love my sons both. I'm having a tough time, dealing with the LIES. It should be Facts, not fiction that decisions are made. Especially when children are involved. They had me take calss and even therapy, and Tax $ fund it all. Everything has to do with $$$$$. I found out so much in regards to the funneling of Tax $. If money was given to assist foster care, how many foster parents would be? Adoption incentives, believable. My Children are with their fathers parents, well his mom.(Thank God for her)! I see my 5yr. old. The 15yr.old is allowed to have his own way. How sad, cps social worker, says he can make his own choices. At 15 I knew I was a child and respect my elders. 2Timothy chp.3 v.1/17

It takes a True Parent, to see that when you ask your wishes that protect your child to be followed. And when violated, you are extremly thrown in panic mode. My 15yr. old knows about who and what took place, in regards to molestation. I asked never to leave his little brother alone,when they are without me. That's very rare. I felt bad,due to the weekend before their father didn't show for pizza night. That was a weak moment and I let them go with my sister. My 5yr. old came home on the 6th of Feb. I had a rep. from The NAACP call cps and get info. That was Feb 8, 2006 at 8:30am at 1:30pm the social worker came and took my 5yr.old. The deputy supervisor of cps had told the NAACP rep. I wasn't in the computer, she'll get back with an explanation. My oldest son was around the corner at my mom's other daughters house.He never came home. The sister I let my kids go with was the victim and my step father was the molestor. They said he got conseling. All this was told to cps. The system!

Parents are plan to be one, be advise that if anyone can make false accusations. In regards to your parent abilities and make it believable, these are perilous times. I pray for us all! God sees all and knows all! (AMEN) PRAY FOR OUR GOVERNMENT!

I do feel that letting my children go with anyone of my genetic acquintances is negli
gent. That's why it was a one time thing, I see that's all it takes. Thank You, Nyema!

Answer 1

Okay, from what I gather from your post, you let your 2 kids go over to your sisters house, but on the condition that she didn't take them around a person you guys knew to be a sex offender?

That is where you made your mistake, why would you let your kids go even that close to a sex offender? Even if they were with a relative?! Especially having a 5 year old, the child is just a helpless baby! Suppose your sister did just what she did, and went against your wishes and took the kids around the sex offender. If you would not have let them go over there, there would not have been a chance for her to go against your wishes! right?

So you are going to have to prove that you were not negligent in the supervising and welfare of your kids, and that will be a toughie for you, being that you let the kids go there, and knowing that it was a chance they would come in close quarters with this offender! Of course, your sister was at fault too, but if I'm understanding right, your kids were the ones that was taken, so you'll have to prove your innocence, not her? Unless she is up for investigation too.

Looks like you are at fault for at least some of this, but if you still feel as though cps has wronged you and your kids, look up fightcps.com and see if that helps. Only thing I can tell you is to fight them cautiously and legally. They are a dirty, ruthless and relentless agency, and corrupt, to say the least. Your story is missing some key pointers, but for the most part, again if you feel you have been wronged by cps, fight them back, but do it legally and not all at once. It helps to have a good attorney too, and not to use a public defender! They are sorry and overloaded with cases to give you the fair representation you deserve. A good guard ad litem (advocate to speak on the behalf of the kids) will do wonders too.

Cps loves opposition ,and when you show them opposition, they will make your life more miserable. (Just becasue they can) And its all legal! So to answer your question, no you are not wrong to feel angry, and resentful at cps for taking your kids. Yes, cps lies, and twist the truth to their advantage, and even when they have evidence to prove their abuse/neglect suspicions unfounded, they can and almost always do, ignore the evidence and the simple facts! So yeah, look up fightcps.com and on it you will see that you are not alone in the way you feel about cps.

My kids were taken too, and the plan is for reunification. I have 4 in foster homes now, the ages range from 8 years old to 10 months. The 10 month old was only 2 months old when they were taken! I was still breastfeeding him. My kids were took because one of the kids had a "failure to thrive" diagnosis (something that I beleive to have went undiagnosed for 2 years, since the child's birth) then it took a visit to a pro-cps pediatrician to make the call and create a scene that made it look like I wasn't feeding my daughter properly! Of couse cps couldn't wait to come snatch all the kids away after the report was called in!

So I feel you on your anger. I wish you the best of luck, from experience..

Nyema

Answer 2

I don't quite understand your question but if you knew that your sister was disturbed enough to take her own kids around a baby raper, WHY in the world would you even allow her to take your children anywhere?? If CPS took your children, then you need to do whatever is in your power to do in order to get them back. You also need to talk to your 5yr old to see if he was touched on his privates and if so, charges need to be brought against that person. It will be hard to prove since so much time has passed but if anything happened anally, he should have scaring that doctors will be able to see. From now on, don't let your babies out of your sight and never let them go off with your sister again. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

Has this gone to court yet? I know it's not your fault but I can see how someone would see it as your fault. Has this neglectful behavior been displayed before? If it has and you still allowed them to go--that might count against you. I'm not too sure--call CPS.

You are not wrong to feel dismissed OR even angry. I would feel this way also.

Hang in there--you do need to try to stay calm and try to keep in the right frame of mind. Best of Luck! I hope it all works out for you!

Answer 4

your infants could be in "coming near near threat" - supposedly - even though it particularly relies upon on the caseworker and the choose. numerous childrens who're abused are nonetheless at homestead, and numerous childrens who're no longer abused get taken away. CPS is a large number. it is not your answer. additionally, you are able to go through criminal reprucussions. particularly curious why you are able to no longer come across a much better be conscious than "cock block" reason I in no way heard that until eventually now and don't even understand what it potential. 15 is a complicated age. Are you 2 "competing" for interest? Does she have sufficient of her own outfits/makeup? And why on earth can no longer you proportion?????? it seems you do unlike her. So, i'd set off off to work out if consistent with hazard there's a chum or relative that she will stay with until eventually now I resorted to CPS. (something having to do with the government is ridiculous...). consistent with hazard you men merely could talk approximately what's particularly bothering you. Do you sit down and hear her? no longer screaming? merely particularly hear? attempt to be extra information. you are able to merely omit her whilst she's long previous. you do no longer choose to sever the courting for something of your existence. you are able to merely remorseful approximately it. attempt to no longer make this way of huge deal of issues. she will make a great deal of issues because of the fact she's 15. She has hormones. She'll throw tantrums. merely help her get throughout the time of the subsequent 3 years. help her discover herself and are available across herself and discover out what SHE likes to do and what SHE desires to do in her destiny. as quickly as she's 18, you would be wanting your self and your stuff all to your self.

Answer 5

There is more missing from the story.. Why are you blaming your son for her actions she was the adult! I can't imagine saying A cutting time to anyone... but that still doesn't solve the problem enough for us to answer the question. Why did CPS take them away from you it couldn't just be from the comment on the cell phone!

Answer 6

one thing makes no sense.. if a known pedophile exists.. wouldnt he have a restraining order forbidding him to be around kids?? a simple call to the police would have landed him back in jail...

Answer 7

well thats not right. how can they take ur kids u did nothing wrong?

Answer 8

Well...I think you owe them a "Happy Meal"