wouldn't it be WRONG for her boyfriend/husband to LEAVE her??
2006-11-26 05:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off I have been raped and if I got prego I would have had a abortion. I dont feel it is right to have a baby that was the result of rape. I think your husband/boyfriend should leave if you feel it is right to keep a baby you didnt even want in the first place with someone who forced it upon you is wrong. Kinda makes you think it was not rape. I would leave for sure. No way in hell would I want to be with someone who was raped and kept the baby it sets off bad signals in someones head right away. Good Luck and I hope your not the one who is dealing with this cuz if you are you need to get help.
2006-11-26 05:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i became fourteen years previous and raped varied circumstances via an eighteen year previous, and finally i became pregnant. After 2 and a half months I miscarried. i'm happy and unhappy on the comparable time. i'm in basic terms sixteen now, and nonetheless it became the tip of a existence i can not think of what i might have accomplished if I have been compelled to have that toddler. i think of of what occurred popular and if I had to hold that toddler for 9 months on the least which would be a on an popular basis reminder of what had occurred to me. i would not have been in a position to do it. No woman who has already had to go through the humility and trauma of rape ought to then be compelled to hold his toddler. this is the place I stand.
2016-10-17 13:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I really can't understand why ANY woman would want to birth a child that's the product of such a traumatic experience, and I definitely couldn't blame her husband/boyfriend for leaving her if she decided to keep the child. All it would serve to do is cause pain: it would be a constant reminder of the rape, and what's worse, the child would probably bare the physical features of the rapist, so the woman AND her husband/boyfriend would have to see the rapist every single day of that child's life. Why would you put yourself through that? Now if for some odd reason she wants to subject herself to that, then fine, she can go ahead. But she can't honestly expect her husband/boyfriend to stick around and raise the child of ANY rapist, let alone the one who raped their wife/girlfriend.
2006-11-26 06:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would be morally wrong, but ultimately his decision. If the woman chooses to keep the child understand those circumstances then she would have to be a strong woman to begin with....a strong man would stand beside her.
2006-11-26 06:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by AlwayzaLady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Otherwise, he would support the child's murder.
-one tree hill? are you kidding me?
Oh, and on another note, to directly answer your question-it is not up to the man to decide what a woman is to do with her child.
2006-11-26 05:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by ... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are in a situaiton where you could never have childeren again, never give birth to a rapists baby. what self respecting guy could ever care for the baby knowing what caused it?
2006-11-26 05:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends, if the parents is an idiot. Did you ever watch One Tree Hill?? Nicki leaves her kid and then tries to win it back over but Jake doesn't let her take the kid since she wasn't there from the start.
2006-11-26 05:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a tough question but having a child no matter who the parent would be would be a wrong decision.
2006-11-26 05:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on if the boyfriens/husband has had children by other women.
2006-11-26 05:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by me8md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it would be wrong if em in this i would stay with the baby
2006-11-26 05:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by bnbnbnb123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋