Ok so i've been asked out by a few guys this past month and i have said no to all of them. most of them because they like to drink and get high and the others because they are really quiet and keep to themselves and thats a bit uncomfortable for me. i can't seem to find a guy to go out with. am i too picky should i start asking guys i think are good for me out. TWO YEARS!!! is that normal?
2006-11-26 05:03:57 · 25 answers · asked by lildancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry chick its normal and its perfectly okay that its been awhile....by not settling for just anybody, your showing boys that your not just some other chick, that your actually something to work for..oh well if its been 2 years....at least your not settling for less than what you want..dont lower your standards and be as picky as you are because in the end your the one thats going to end up with that person and they might as well be what you wanted them to be
2006-11-26 05:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you are so picky because you should not date someone just to date. In high school, there is this huge pressure to date and have sex and the fact that you have these high standards will help you as you go through life. Never settle for less than what you deserve! And two years is nothing. If you haven't found that guy you would like to be with, don't worry. You are young and will find a guy who you click with.
2006-11-26 05:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by kkolnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you're ready is "normal". Start asking guys you like, and think are right for you. If those other guys were just liking you for you but you didn't like them, it's ok. Just be yourself and the right guy will find you. Whatever you want to do is normal. If you want to go out, be my guest! Start asking around, you'll find someone trust me!
I'm 13 and I haven't gone out in 3 years, either. Don't worry. You'll find someone. :)
2006-11-26 05:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Years is sooo normal. YAY for you! Being picky is what finds you the right guy for you, saves you from alot of heartache, and lets you figure out what makes you happy. So proud of you! Don't settle, no matter how much pressure you may feel. You will thank yourself, later on. Promise!
2006-11-26 05:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 15 you really should wait on guys all together. At that age all they think about is playing games, getting messed up and adding girls to their blackbook. Most ppl never end up in love early in life, maybe high school but that dont happen as much as it used to. Save yourself for someone who is going to want u in 10 years and buckle down on school ;)
P.S. I have a 15yr old daughter
2006-11-26 05:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Misty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and never went out with a girl :( Anyway, who knows I'm sure the quiet ones will open up more and really start becoming more social once you give them a chance. Good Luck.
2006-11-26 05:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by kcdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So im 17 very nearly 18 and that i've got in no way kissed a woman no biggie relationship is stupid all you do is say your going out, bypass to the videos then wreck up a week later because of the fact of something stupid. the way I see it in dropping my time relationship because of the fact in case you're particularly going to make the courting artwork you will could be going out for a number of years to get out of high school and be legally able to marry, no relationships final that long particularly until eventually there is a superb vow spoken to maintain them jointly. the only way men get a kiss is from a girl chum, 9 circumstances out of 10. you may get a kiss although from college dances. I had a date to homecomming final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days that gave me a kiss on the cheek, ya i know it particularly is wonderful yet it is not technically a kiss kiss. i'm specific whilst promenade time roles around you wil have the potential to make out with your date. i understand I had the possibility to with my date to Junior promenade final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, I merely exchange into scared as to what to accomplish that whilst our eyes locked on that bench exterior of the college I without postpone grew to become my head until eventually now shall we do something and made up something to alter the priority. In time you will have a kiss, do no longer problem approximately it, i do no longer I in all hazard would have had one by now if I asked women out rather of just to college dances yet i'm in no rush, I even have my total existence previous to me to get that achieved.
2016-10-04 09:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're certainly right is staying away from the drinkers and losers, and I would just be patient, especially at 15.
If you find a real winner, you might want to invite him to a family barbeque, or somethings such as that.
2006-11-26 05:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure it is. you know what you want and you ain't going to make the wrong choice. don't give up you'll find the right young plus you are still young. i didn't get too series with anyone when i was that age. it was more when i got into college or my sr when i started getting series and i still haven't found the right guy for me.
2006-11-26 05:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by gibbs_20_11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. face it, most people are immature at 15, and finding a quality person is hard at any age. i didn't date until i was 18, so you're not the only one out there. don't worry about it. and don't settle just to date someone.
2006-11-26 05:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by celine n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋