This guy just got out of a serious relationship. He said that he likes me but he wants to have fun. Does this mean he wants to have fun with other girls or he just wants to not focus on a serious relationship. (oh, he goes out drinking with his guy friends alot)
2006-11-26 04:58:53 · 20 answers · asked by skykiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he just got out of a serious relationship then it means he isnt ready to get into another one right away. He is having fun by dating and hanging out with his friends. Just enjoy the time you spend with him and dont try to define things with him.
2006-11-26 05:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think he means he just wants to go out and be free with or without other girls. He is seeking freedom that he didnt have in the serious relationship. Sounds like he is making up for lost time.I would give him some time and see what happens, if it is meant to be then it will be. Good Luck and I hope this helps
2006-11-26 13:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Misty b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means that he just wants to have fun and enjoy being single and yes it may mean he will be chillin with other females. He doesnt want anything emotional or any commitment. Maybe hes still getting over his previous relationship. Its good that hes letting you know what the deal is, he obviously doesnt want to hurt you.
2006-11-26 13:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by annette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is just not that ready for another serious relationship.When a person gets out of a serious relationship which a painful journey by itself we decide not to get into it again sooner in future,thats why we just avoid such relationships which we believe is pain.So nobody would be actually interested to welcome pain sooner again,This doesnt mean you are pain,but its the experience that is associated with what we call a serious relationship that makes it so avoidable.All you have to do is give him time and space to heal.He will come to you when he feels his heart is ready for another serious relationship.Meanwhile,you can focus on yourself,get involved in activities that fascinate you.Have fun.Just maintain friendship with him.When he is ready,he is yours.Just chill.
2006-11-26 13:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree with the other girl who answered your question. he wants to experience some freedom now that he is out of his long-term relationship. whether he does that by having one-night stands or not is his choice. maybe he wants to date for a little bit and try out other girls so get an idea as to what he really wants out of his next relationship. the easiest way for you to answer this question is to just ask him directly. nobody is a mind-reader and you will not find the answer here. everybody is different...as you know. what one person would do another wouldn't. so take what he tells you at face value and stop trying to think of the ulterior motives he may or may not have. you'll drive yourself crazy. if he wanted a relationship with you he would have asked you already. so yes means yes and no means no.
2006-11-26 13:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Russell B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means he wants to have fun with you hes not looking for a serious relationship at this time basically in english he wants to date you but not be your b.f
2006-11-26 13:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Beth m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to be just that...friends. He wants to have his fun going out with his friends, drinking and being free. He may like you for a "booty call" since you seem to like him, he might think you are willing to help him out. Stay away from this little boy!
2006-11-26 13:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He pretty much means he wants to sleep around with whoever. Hes not looking for another relationship right now. I say leave him be and let him do whatever he wants.
2006-11-26 13:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means that he likes you enough to keep you around but is only doing so untill he finds someone who is worth the commitment im not saying your not worth it but when a man really cares about you nothing else should matter you should be enough fun for him but yea to make it short hes just using you untill the right one comes along.
2006-11-26 13:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by tabby : * 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In guy talk "I just wanna have fun" roughtly translates to
"I just wanna use you"
Oh and then after they 'use' you they will then pull the line of 'Theres no strings, I told you this'
Seriously dont bother with this dude, he isnt for you!
2006-11-26 13:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋