which I havent, he has gone thru all my stuff, phones etc. Anyway I want to get him back, I was thinking of waiting till he's sleeping and spraying deep heat or deep freeze on his you know what! Do you think it will cause permanent damage? I dont want to do that just let him know how annoyed i am.
2006-11-26 04:42:41 · 18 answers · asked by jo m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.
if he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.
if you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
2006-11-26 04:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by debs1701 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My long term boyfriend accused me of cheating on him,like when did I have time and the guys round my way,well,no oil paintings thats for sure.But seriously it was the last straw.I was nothing but loving to him and he threw it back in my face.So I broke up with him and I've never been happier.If he can accuse you of that and you have to defend everything you do he's really not worth it.
2006-11-26 19:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. If you woke up with something painful inside your vagina, you would be filing a lawsiut, wouldn't you?
Besides, what would it accomplish anyway? Do you think it would make him trust you MORE?
Duh.
I would worry about your mental state. Sexual aggression is NOT NORMAL. Seek counseling for that one.
Also, maybe your counselor would be able to help you discover why you are in a co-dependent relationship in the first place.
Then, maybe you will be able to overcome this, and be able to raise your standards in men.
2006-11-26 13:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that wont cause permanent damage, but it might cause a little legal trouble. what you do, is you wake him up with you naked, and start asking him questions such as, "you think im cheating, well would a cheater do this", then do something to him. just make sure you ask him, and try to go along with his answer. if all that blows up, just explain how much you love him.
2006-11-26 12:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do it go out with your girlfriends but don't tell him that you are going out with them just say that you are going out and when you return your top should be inside out and then make sure that he see its, then he will wonder what's going on.
I wouldn't spray him with anything just in case you do, do some damage. But why don't you stop being nice to him, stop speaking to him and general just be off with him until he decides to apologise. When you go out with him and his friends are there, just speak to everyone but him, and after a while accuse him of cheating and start going through his stuff to see how he likes it
2006-11-26 13:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I heard about a similar situation of revenge that lead to a lawsuit.
looking good is tbe best revenge- then he can see what he can't have, dangled in front of him. Either that or move on, why do you really want to get him back? It won't change anything he did or accused you of.
2006-11-26 12:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by yogangel7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sensible and leave him alone for sometime. When he will not find you for a couple of days, he will start missing you and come back to you. Just be patient and act wisely.
2006-11-26 13:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes accused you, it only means one thing hes cheating on you!
shave his eye brows, draw stupid pictures all over his face in permanent marker, cut his clothes up, sh*t in his shoes, and fart in his face, all while hes sleeping of course, then i think he will know how annoyed you are, he wont be accusing you again in a hurry!
good luck!
2006-11-26 18:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by KELLY I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that! A relationship is worth nothing unless there is trust. Why the hell is he going through your phone??? He needs to grow up.
2006-11-26 12:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him back by leaving him, he has a problem and it wont get better by applying that to his groin (which is not a good idea by the way)!
He is pathologically jealous and needs help...;
2006-11-26 12:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋