I met this girl brittany about 2 weeks ago. We were having alot of fun during those 2 weeks. Friday I had a party at my house and I left for about 4 hours trying to cheer her up because of her family problems and school. I was the only one to cheer her up and I ditch my own party for her and alot of people got angry at me again because I just ran off. Later that night I ask her if she wanted to start dating and right away her eyes lite up and she said yes. So yesterday I call her up and ask if she wanted to hang out around 8 or 9pm. She said for sure but she was going to a party with a friend so she said we should chill around 12am. So she calls me at 11 and says she has no way to my house so I go and pick her up but as soon as I get there like litreally 2 mins aways she calls me back and says not to come and just hangs up on me. I call her back 2 times and someone else picks up and says she left but I know they were lying to me. I dont know why she did this?? I love her so much...
2006-11-26 04:15:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really do love her but if she going to treat me like this I dont know if want to be with her because she could pull this off again. That whole day I waited for her and nothing but her was on my mind then she totally crush my heart that night...
2006-11-26 04:17:08 · update #1
wow. this is complicated. I say try the best u can to get back in touch with her. The power of love never fails. really. Dont always come to conclusions when u dont know the real facts. Maybe something happened to a family member and she had to leave.
2006-11-26 04:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angelbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you paid to much attention to her, you should have not ditched the party because of her, that was what started your downfall. And never chase a girl, let them chase you.
Now your best bet is to totally ignore her and if you see her or talk to her, give her **** and say, that your time in valuable to you and you have better things tto do than being played by a girl and than hung up or leave without saying bye.
2006-11-26 12:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write her a letter explaining how you feel and put it in her locker or mail it to her or try email.. she is just probally feeling doubts about letting somthing good into her life you say she is having problems at home and at school so they are probally getting to her you should tell her that you are always here for her and that if she is not ready for a b.f she should let you know not just blow you off and tell you not to come and that not talk to you at all i dont get that part maybe she is just hurting a little... and needs space..
2006-11-26 12:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that she had family problems and maybe had a hard time at home so she was upset and quickly rang you to tell you not to come? As she has only started dating you she might be embarrassed about this and called you because she was worried about you seeing it, or maybe her parents or a family member made her call and then lied to you about where she was.
2006-11-26 12:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to get he upper hand from the start. Do you really wanna play this game with this girl?
This is the girl who wants a nice guy at her beck and call, so she can use and abuse you and make you jump through all her hoops.
2006-11-26 12:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is more than playing you .. she has made you into a class project. She is having you perform not only for herself but for the entertainment of her friends as well.
It might be worth it. Sometimes getting even is so much fun.
2006-11-26 12:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love her. She is not respectful of you and not worthy of your love. Find someone who is not a little girl into playing games. Ditch her.
2006-11-26 12:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love her after only knowing her for only two weeks? There are plenty of drama-free girls out there. So forget all those drama-for-your-momma girls.
2006-11-26 12:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. she obviously saw someone she wanted and went with that person instead... can you say s.l.u.t... give that a rest and go after a girl that's not one... a girl that won't use you to feel better and then dump you when she does...
2006-11-26 12:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should give her the flick... If she cared about you she wouldn't waste your time like she has. Don't waste your time with someone like this and find someone who really cares about you.
2006-11-27 10:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by smilebehappy29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋