2006-11-26 03:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have HAD to learn to say no. I just got involved in too many things...and my life was not my own. If people don't understand...then that is their fault. We can not be all things to all people. We have to love ourselves first in order for anyone else to love and understand us. If you aren't good to yourself...then who will be?
Guilt is when you do something wrong...and regret it later. I don't feel guilty about saying no.
2006-11-26 03:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by TexasRose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...dang it now I feel bad. In all seriousness I try to never say anything I do not mean and I am never in a place where I feel guilty for saying what I truly feel.
2006-11-26 11:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by mortgagegirl101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never say no to friends or family. never have, don't know about feeling guilty . .now a neighbor might come over and I will say sorry neighbor, cant do that. I had vegetable soup last night. and he will say whats having soup got to do with me borrowing your shovel? and I will say, well, one excuse is just as good as another ha ha ha, no really I let them borrow what they wont to.
2006-11-26 11:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what I'm saying no to..... but on average, no I can't. I feel guilty almost every time I say it. Even if its justifable and appropriate. Sad aren't I?
2006-11-26 11:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and have many times
2006-11-26 11:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guilt, shame, regret, and the like are binding to the spirit of life. No, I have no problem with it.
2006-11-26 11:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by guidedlight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Apparently my toddler can too, because she says it all the time. Little heathen.
2006-11-26 14:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by vegetable soup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I can. Have said it many times about many things
2006-11-26 11:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Donna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially when you're the RIGHT ones
2006-11-26 11:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by yusdz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certainly can as there are times when saying " no " is necessary especially when one is to busy or when there are possible illegal activities involved.
2006-11-26 11:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋