i allready asked this but in a different way people got the wrong impression. my mother got married when i was two to a man i loved but when i was 13 he sexually harrased my sister and tried to buy her off with a diamond necklace so she wouldnt tell. My mother decided to believe him when he said he didnt do it over her own daughters comments. i have an 8 year old brother that lives with her. he was tacken away once because she was" a bad mother" and i would like to see him but every time i try to talk to my mother again she blows everything in my families lives in MY face but i would really like to see my brother. now it has been a year since i have had contact with her or my brother and now my stepfather is in Iraq so iw ouldnt have to deal with him.. help!!
2006-11-26 03:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by sockemme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU HAD better go to the proper Authorities about this, and NOW! You're asking the wrong people when going on here with this kind of ISSUE!
I was "harrassed" in the same way as your Sister, alot of my growing up, only no Bribery involved, BUT, this was my real Father, and my Mom left his A** when she got her life together!
Since he was "messed up" Psychologically, I have an older Brother who was in an Inst. for years, due to the problems the man had. We had many years of Counseling as well, BUT, those days this stuff was "Hush-Hush" and Authorities weren't brought into this back then!
My life was UPSIDE-DOWN for almost the rest of my life, so your Sister is needing Counseling so she can talk about the problems and get through it, or if not, she will ROT through her life and that would be horribly traumatic for her! Please give her my email and I can talk to her some about my experience, if she needs someone else to talk to, who KNOWS about this horriblr stuff!
It can mess up her life if she lets it!
SO, please go to Authorities with what you know. AND,
the Police can track down your Step-Dad, no matter where he thinks he can hide out!
Good luck to you and write me anytime!
2006-11-26 03:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a real pickle here aren't you?? I do not know what to tell you. If it has been a year you can try again and ask her where you brother is. Is there another relative who could find out this for you. Call a Social worker and ask it maybe and open case and not closed to the public. I don't know honey, i am glad you want to find him, good luck to you.
2006-11-26 11:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to be more demanding. when she starts throwing all this stuff in your face try really hard not to get upset, tell her that all you want to do is see your brother. maybe the reason she acts this way is so that you cant see him. maybe she is mistreating him and she knows that if you see him and are able to talk to him you will find this out. be more demanding!!
2006-11-26 11:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact her and tell her you would like to spend sometime with the family. then when you get ready to leave maybe you take your brother home for the night..
2006-11-26 11:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by tigger120788 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you got to do what you got to do!If you want to see your brother go see him,it is your choice, just dont let you mother ruin your visit.
2006-11-26 11:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Janie Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing him if u have add.. if not you have a computer there is help out there for you ....i think your mom should help you ..not much help but don't let this get you down never give up it will work for you
2006-11-26 11:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
police!
2006-11-26 11:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Meonater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋