please don't say someone will like you blah blah and be yourself blah blah...i m 15 and have wheatish complexion, dark brown hair, brown(beautiful) eyes, nice face cut, slim, intelligent, not sportive though, and i nice to my friends..like friendly, funloving with my friends...still no one likes me and everyone likes the gurl who is no beautiful than me..is it because i m just 5"2? I personally feel that i m beautiful and deserve a bf..but haven't dated one yet! What is the reason? What can I do?
2006-11-26 02:20:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please give me sensible answers people! And tell me am I really beautiful because no one says that i am beautiful..
2006-11-26 02:22:16 · update #1
Beauty lies within my dear girl. Try to do an honest self-analysis - concentrate on your strengths and improve upon your weaknesses. Dating and boy friends are no measure of success in real life, which lies ahead of you.
2006-11-26 02:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put so much emphasis on being beautiful, maybe the guys in your circle of friends think they haven't got a chance because they don't meet your standards. You sound jealous and needy. These are not attractive qualities, no matter how pretty you are.
Look, you're only 15, that's a long way from being an old maid. Boys your age are somewhat shy and awkward about this stuff. Give yourself and them a chance. Go on with your life. The more you do, the more interesting you become. Stop thinking so much of the way people look, and try to look for other qualities in them.
If you are as beautiful as you say you are on the outside, you aren't going to have any problem attracting men. Take the time alone to become more beautiful on the inside. Good luck beautiful.
2006-11-26 10:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from your comments I can already tell you are SO worried about not having a boyfriend or the fact that people dont comment you are beautiful that it is lowering your likability.
It doesnt matter if you are 5'2, my friend is 4'9 and she has a tall boyfriend that coddles her to death. Size does not matter!
Most people do not get complimented, I usually dont myself, even though Im attractive.
The thing is, you worry too much and when you worry, people notice something weird about you. You are only 15 too, some people dont date til they are almost 18! I wouldnt be so touchy about it. You are still young. You should enjoy yourself first. Once you are enjoying yourself and not worrying, people will find more interest in you. Also, how often do you interact with guys? If you are interacting way more with girls or are always in a girl "pack" it is much harder for guys to get to know you. Hang with guys when you can (with at least one girlfriend there, please) and you will be able to get them to notice you at least.
And yes, Im going to say it, it takes confidence to attract men (or women). It really sounds like you have no belief in yourself to get a date. Be happy with yourself, stop worrying to death becuase things WILL come, and live your life.
You wont be single forever unless you want to be. I gaurentee it.
2006-11-26 10:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many reasons , since i dont know u and havent seen u before, u determine which one is the case with u(u can ask a trusted friend to help u with it):
1) u have a nasty weird attitude like being snobbish, boring, over isolated, uninteresting.
2) u have a weird way in walking or staring.
3) ur smelly or have something really turning off about u.
4) u dress like a kid and u don't wear attractive clothes (revealing clothes that r sexy).
5) ur a nerd who dresses in a goofy way.
6) ur not cool/hot/sexy/beautiful enough.
it has nothing to do with ur hieght..lots of guys like shorties.. they think they'r cuter (rolls eyes).
i say, do a make over, cut ur hair or colour it or start putting some make up.. maybe u have a weird nose or flat chest or bad teeth i dunno..fix ur looks, be more outgoing.. have a life outside school...go shopping and buy some hot trendy clothes..
listen to cool music and watch the latest stuff on tv to know what they'r talking about..
just try to blend in with the croud...a guy should come soon.
2006-11-26 10:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kolera 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres you problem.... your too sure of yourself, that you are beautiful, seriously im sure someone will... but you need to just sloe down, your 15 there are people who are 25 and have never had one, just be patient, it'll happen, dont be in a hurry... im 15 too, and because of guys ive made some of the worst mistakes ever, that i thought id NEVER do..... and it happens even when you say you wont. but put yourself 'out there' a little more.... if theres a guy you like... flirt(or with anyone) but dont act desparete, no reason to be, dont be afraid to ask a guy to hang out, some guys actually like it.... but just relax, and stop telling yourself your beautiful and asking your self why no one likes you, cause i doubt that, im sure theres a guy, who secretly likes you, your just a little to blind to see him... hes probably right in front of your face, you just havent picked up on it yet, it'll happen, i know you dont want to here that, but its the truth, cause i know how you feel, you want it now, but its not gonna happen right away
2006-11-26 10:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does suck and I know what you are saying so I will answer this with what happen to my son. We moved to another area and he is very big for his age and I found out when you are moving to a new area the other kids will judge you and they will wait till you have proved yourself and it took about 3 years and so many other kids like him. now I am getting ready to move again. My Niece she is very well liked and she has been very involved all her life she goes to dance classes and she does hip oops and bible classes she even join a yoga classes and she has a lot of friends and boyfriends. but now she is 17 and getting ready for collage. I think you need to get involve with some thing like your church. My church had a lot of programs.
2006-11-26 10:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask your friends if they know of anyone who likes you, and if you like them, try inviting him somewhere. You can also tell your friends how you feel, they'll gossip and some guy who does like you will hear it.
Oh by the way, if you have a good heart, you are beautiful.
2006-11-26 10:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you very likely are beautiful...do you remember princess Di...she did not think she was beautiful....she was wrong....and i am sure you are too......
people never see themselves as others do...
look in the mirror each day...and say ."you are really beautiful"...because you are...God made you , and he does not screw things up..
also, dont try to be all things to all people...make one good friend at a time..and you will be amazed how quickly the list will grow...another thing...if you do not like yourself how can you expect someone else to like you...if you are 5'2"...then be bigger than that with your ideas about yourself..you are you and you are U NIQUE....enough said
2006-11-26 10:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by bintheredunthat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you're trying to hard to get a boyfriend and ended up not so fun to hang around with because of it. Just have fun and enjoy your friendship with all of your friends.
2006-11-26 10:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by flirtalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your desperation over shadows your beauty and you scare the guys away.? Try and be yourself and dont try to hard with people.
2006-11-26 10:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by 132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋