I mean it does sound like girls are using part of the logic that guys often use: they want to marry a virgin but play around before their "prison term" begins. What's this new premium on male virginity anyway?
2006-11-26 02:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Lightbringer 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to be completely honest with you. Waiting until your married is fine in it's concept. Somewhere in your late 20's however it starts getting a little weird if your still a virgin. Getting married in your early 20's however is in my opinion way to young to be getting married.
2006-11-26 02:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is the main reason people get married nowadays? In times gone by, women needed to be married so they could function in society--someone to protect them and provide for them. Today, most women have their own careers! Virginity is a choice--do you choose to keep your body and mind pure in order to ultimately honor someone with the greatest gift you can give them or justify playing around by explaining to yourself that you are testing the water, checking out the merchandise etc.
After being in a mediocre marriage that I walked out of after 10 years, I believe that marriage should be similar to a business contract--5 years with an option to renew! Also prearranged child support
Most people including myself, view the state of marriage too romantically--the beautiful wedding eternal bliss...Look at your future mate through the eyes of a potential employer, will he/she a reliable worker? supportive father? often someone will be enticing sexually but that is just about all. Go into marriage with both eyes open, and examine person just like you examine a house before purchasing. Make sure they have a steady job, clean home, decent family and respectable friends!
2006-11-26 02:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I too congradulate them. Seeing as I am also holding out until marriage.
No double standard here.
2006-11-26 02:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, I don't know which nerds you've been talking to but the last thing I'd want in bed with me for the rest of my life is a fumbling fool that I'd have to teach how to please me. Makes no common sense.
2006-11-26 02:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
We are tired of accused of thinking about sex every 10.3 seconds of the day. We want to prove to women that you guys want sex as much as we do. I am glad to see that you are starting to complain it shows that you are thinking of sex. Cm-on try and break us.
2006-11-26 02:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've never heard of this. Perhaps it is a localized thing, anecdotal?
2006-11-26 02:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i want to start my prizon term in a clean surrounding
2006-11-26 02:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i dont know the new premium.
2006-11-26 02:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you trying to start a rumor or something?
2006-11-26 02:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋