I have decided to wait till marriage , is this right? Am i normal? What do you think?

Question

I am very emotional ,believer of true love , so i decided to wait for The One.
Although its very-very difficult but still ... Since i am waiting , so i will certainly like a girl who too is waiting (though if found someone that worthy , this will not matter).
So anything you will like to say ( yes ,i know most will not agree with me) .
I know how difficult it is for me, but girls, what about you? How much difficult it is / had been , for you ,to resist , till you said , "oh ... lets do it ..." ? & yes i am male ,good looking , perfectly normal otherwise , & waiting for the one , to get married & to start our endless sex escapades .... lol ....

Just adding: i am 23 , will marry when i am about 26 ,three years from now , hopefully have the one with me by then .
Presently doing MBA , making the future my way & yes searching for the one good enough....
Also , hormones are showing their strength but yes take my word , I Will Hold On , For Love .....

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with that......

* Thumbs up *
Good question man....Good question......

Answer 2

I think that is wonderful, I wish that I had done the same when I was your age! I am a 24 year old Female and became sexually active when I was 18. I got pregnant when I was 19 and it has been hard! Save yourself the heart ache of getting a girl prego and paying up the nose in child support (although I dont have my baby's daddy paying because he is still in school and I want him to have a great life!) or worse end up with some nasty STD. Yes it is hard to wait but in the end it is so worth it, trust me on this!
Have a great holiday!
Erica

Answer 3

Yes, I commend you on your belief. You have the right and you are normal. I fully believed that until My right was taken away from me, without my consent. I was devastated! I can never go back. Since, I find it fine to say No. Men who want just the physical and don't want to wait, really do not respect me and it is fine for them to go on. I want someone who wants me. I know there are men out there, and you just confirmed it. Thank you!

In most cases, It can be a difficult thing to resist. If you think you will be in a position that will test your belief, do not put yourself in that position and it will be easier. Also, tell the person you are with so they will know. They should respect your belief.

God Bless you. Keep your faith and Keep strong. Hugs to you.

Answer 4

In this crazy world where babies have babies.. I'd say more power to you! You do the right thing. I don't know how old you are but it gets really hard, especially when hormones speak louder than your brain. Not to mention all the temptations out there and peer pressure too! But when you finally do it on your wedding night, that would be most precious moment you could share with the love of your life.

Answer 5

I respect you for your decision. Not many guys can hold their sex drive like that. It saves you from stds and drama throughout your dating experience. I waited until I was 17 and I was in love. I was in love because even though the guy cheated on me with my best friend, I still care about him and always will. Anyway, go for it! There are women out there who will respect your decision! Didn't you see the movie "40 year old virgin"? LOL If a woman laughs at you for it, she's not worthy of your love. Go for it, man! I respect you!

Answer 6

Dude my hats off to you, you are the few who still have moral values and some decency, and should be respected...if a woman can't admire that they're the typical ho, ignorant, and a statistic that just doesn't understand what it means to have some kind of value when it comes to love.

I waited ..or tried.....too.....I didn't lose it until i was 23 (in this day and age, for a male that's a freakin record...although i do know some who are like 30-36 still virgins, but hey....least there's some of us out there.) I wanted to wait for my virgin soulmate too but i was a year too late....I found her a year after i decide to let it go.....and i let go because i lost faith in finding the right one.....so ..kinda nipped me in the but.....but I had the honor to be with my fiance, who i'm her first, and so i'm glad i at least found what i was lookin for all my life.
And yea man that sh*t is hard as hell to fight, especially in college, i've had to say no to women buck naked at my front door in my dorms, women who literally and blatantly wantd to do it, but for the sake of my goal to wait until i'm married, and my morals i said nah.....but when you get your heart broken, and you go through bullsh*t, i got discouraged and ended up makin a bad decision to lose it....lost it to the WRONG one.....had 3 bad apples after, and then i finally met my fiance....so some regret, but i still found my wife, so it's all good.
You're normal, but you are unique, as people don't value what you believe in much anymore, so many fall victim to today's casual sex and the city life.....you are one in a million man, I hope you find a woman who shares the same values, as I was lucky to find.....good luck to ya man.

Answer 7

I think that your decision is up to you and you shouldn't be asking the general public to make decisions based on your moral beliefs. I think it is an excellent decision, more people should think like you and their wouldn't be so much disease and children raised in single parent homes. Don't worry whether or not you are "normal", who is it that decides what normal is anyhow? Normal is nothing but a collection of numbers from a poll. To make this a little easier on yourself, keep yourself out of situations where you become to aroused.

Answer 8

we are all human beings, but we all have different beleifs, values, etc.. there's really no right or wrong answer as to when is the "right time" to start having sex.. lots of people chose to do it at a very young age, others chose to wait until marriage..

what matter's most is that you seem to have a good handle of what your own value system is. you know you want to wait, and you hvae firmly made up your mind.. so in that sense, you are ahead of most, as many seem to be confused about when they will be ready.

no matter what happens in life, stay true to your values and stay true to yourself, and you will never live to regret it.

Answer 9

Wow. Good for you!! You and your future wife will never regret it. You are the kind of man that my youngest daughter is waiting for. This may sound strange, but make the commitment to your future wife now. Even if you don't know her yet. Write her a letter and tell her what you just told us.

Answer 10

You are totally normal and worthy of respect. I, too, have decided to wait, and yes, it is very difficult, but it is all going to pay off in the end.

Answer 11

yes, good for you, I to am waiting for the right one. Because this way i dont have multiple children with how many different mothers. i want all my children to come from the same mother. I dont want that kind of family with all my kids being half bros sisters.