okay okay.. im only 17 and when i like a girl its like fully.. its like i take it seriously. people sometimes tell me to like have fun enjoy teenage life and not to love until when i get older.. but somehow i do enjoy my teenage life.. but i take relationship seriously.. i do have fun during my relationship then next thing you know fall inlove with this girl.and yea..kinda wierd how a teenager loves like an adult..NOw this girl that i love broke up with me twice like every 2 weeks people say have fun and enjoy her. and i do but i take it really seriously.. now this girl that broke my heart and now she wants to go back with me for the second time..im just afraid that if i do i would just get my heart broken again.. should i go for it..?? and is me normal for most of the teenager??
2006-11-26 01:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe not for most... but i know MANY who are exactly like you. It sounds like your girlfriend isn't worth it and many would be lucky to have you with such loving feelings... it may be that you don't enjoy single life (i dont) and that you do need (or want) to be in a relationship where you are allowed to love. Most teenage girls don't freak at the L word so you're fine...
2006-11-26 01:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing is the normal teenage hormone bashing that every person must necessarily undergo as a right of passage into adulthood.We all have our crushes that are brought on invariably by chemical impulse. You most certainly are normal. At the risk of sounding like the combination of a shrink as well as an astrologer I'll say this, if you're a guy that takes every relationship seriously, you'll most likely evolve into what is most often known in colloquial parlance as a 'keeper' of a life partner. When you're older, you'll be successful in love as girls are always on the lookout for the sincere kind. As far as your present situation goes, you've gotta decide if you're strong enough to take another letdown from what I would call an on again off again relationship.If you are, go for it. However if each 'breakup' leaves you emotionally drained and feeling hurt and exhausted and unable to cope.Just say no and look out for something better and something real. Don't waste your time with this girl.
2006-11-26 01:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Martinique Samuelson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're normal. Just be more aware of her playing with your heqart this time and not take her too seriously. Enjoy being with each other and doing fun things. Stuff happens and if she gets funny again and leaves, let her go for good next time.
2006-11-26 01:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by miladybc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie i think the country could do with a few more teenagers that think like you and definatly dont think that you are not normal.Im sure your mum would rather have you as you are than coming home steaming drunk in the middle of the night.Have you explained to your mum why you dont like hanging round with your friends?Maybe you could find a few friends who are like you and hang out together like going to the cinemas,ice skating or bowling or even just girlie shopping. I have upmost respect for teenagers like you and hope that there are more of you about in the future.All the best love xx
2016-05-23 04:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's VERY normal! Believe it or not you ARE enjoying life in a very healthy way. It's great to really love the person you are with at the time. It doesn't mean you have to marry her. She should be a close friend, especially if you have sex with her!
2006-11-26 01:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know you care about her that much? you should tell her, so maybe she can find out if she feels the same way.... these things are tough.... i feel like i'm completely in love with someone and the next thing i know they're breaking up with me...
good luck
:)
ps- i hope that's normal cause i'm only 15
2006-11-26 01:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sunkari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back to her..b/c obviously she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship..and you do. i think it's normal for teenagers to be serious in a relationship..sometimes they even marry the high school sweet hearts.
2006-11-26 01:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by tweety_mm19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your not the only one, why date to screw around when the whole point of it is finding a partner for the rest of your life
2006-11-26 01:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh me too but im only 15
2006-11-26 01:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..once you start breaking up ;) its normal...no need to take it sooooo seriously dear.
2006-11-26 01:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋