I have been single for 7 months and I finally met someone Im interested in. First of all, he is a neighbor who lives upstairs from me. Secondly, he is 7 years younger than I am (I'm 34). We have hung/gone out more than three times. We kissed for the first time the other night.....but he lets me make the first move. I can't get a handle on what he's thinking. Should I ask point blank or give it more time. The last time I was out there dating was several years ago and I wasn't looking for the same things. Now, I'm looking for intimacy, trust and friendship. I don't want to scare him away but I don't want to waste my time either. Any advice would be helpful! Thanks.
2006-11-26 01:30:29 · 5 answers · asked by Nomes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it were ME, i would ask. Subtly of course. But i can't handle being in the dark... If he is looking for a relationship with you, it won't scare him away... If he's looking for a fling-- it's not what you want anyways...
2006-11-26 01:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is a brand new relationship/friendship...give it some time to get to know one another....don't jump into bed too quickly...take your time and see where it goes...as you get to know each other, talk about things that are important to you....that are important to him and you will find out what the potential for more is with this guy....don't rush...you are not wasting time you are getting to know someone....I would say give it a few months...you'll know by then...good luck
2006-11-26 01:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big rush? Three dates is hardly "wasting time" with someone. Give it time.
2006-11-26 01:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him because your not looking for anything any other selfrespecting woman would want
2006-11-26 01:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should ask her whenever you feel
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2006-11-26 01:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋