on finding love. It's just I am in my early 20's and I am a nice guy. But have been single and have never had a girlfriend. I have tried to go to clubs. But I don't like being around to many people. More specificually to many drunks. What do I do any advice would be apriciated thanks.
2006-11-26 01:18:08 · 18 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Trevor darling, your so, so young to be so worried about this.
You now there are lots of girls out there who feel the same as you, and are finding it just as hard to find somebody to love.
Yes, it is true most couples do meet in clubs and pubs and therefore this will always cut down the amount of places you might meet someone.
Obviously having placed this question on Answers, you have a computer. There are lots of dating agencies on the net and my friends daughter has just joined one. I think called, lunch dates.
Obviously by the name you will realise it's a daytime lunchdate which is'nt too long and therefore if you don't like the person, then you won't have to be spending too much time with them.
Might not be the ideal answer your looking for but it's a start eh?Good luck and as I say your far too young to start seriously worrying about it.
2006-11-26 01:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 23 and been single for 3 months. I havent given up but am in a mind where if I meet some one then great, if not Im not worried.
Maybe take up a new hobby, join a gym, go out with your mates to different places other than pubs/clubs eg cinema. Concerts are a particularly good place cuz you can almost guarantee the people there are into the same music as you. Thats an ice breaker.
Dont worry Trev, you will see someone you like
2006-11-26 10:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Trevor,
First, I really wouldn't suggest clubs as a place to meet someone. Not saying it never works out, but its best to avoid. You need to meet someone through interests you have or through friends or work. It seems to be a rule that if your are actually "looking", you are not going to meet someone. You are still very young, my brother is now 30 years old and met his first and only girlfriend four years ago. Never ever give up on love, but know that it will come. Don't be "fake", just be yourself and be a friend and when the time is right, you will meet the girl for you.
2006-11-26 09:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why only go to clubs? What is wrong with the Library or a museum, hell even the supermarket.
Clubs are like cattle markets, do you seriously want a relationship with a cow!!
Lots of people met their respective partners at work, some even on their way to work. I met my husband at a friends house. Don't appear so desperate you'll frighten all the good ones off. Bless your heart though, sweet question. Bon chance!
2006-11-26 09:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by maria bartoninfrance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clubs are not the best places to find good people. I recommend spending more time with your family and friends. Start doing a new activity you've always wanted to try. Volunteer for a charity that means a lot to you. You'll find girls there that you have more stuff in common with. Plus, you'll be busy doing something you like and will have less time to think about the bad stuff.
2006-11-26 09:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for you - don't give up. Take up an interest and remember that women like to be friends at first. If you make new friends you must show you are interested in them by asking them lots of questions about themselves and really listening to what they say. Make it all about them, not you. And take care over you appearance - spoil yourself, a trip to the hairdresser and some new clothes will make you feel better about yourself and more confident with women.
2006-11-26 09:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered a question of mine. You seem a really nice guy. Dont worry you wont be on your own for long. It will happen when you least expect it to. Dont go looking for love it will find you. All the best and dont worry.
2006-11-26 10:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by beverley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in your early twenties and you've given up hope? That's ridiculous! I'm in my late thirties and still haven't found true love.
You don't need to go to pubs and clubs, but you probaly do need to socialise more. If you socialise in areas that you're comfortable in (I can't tell you what those areas are) then you're more likely to meet the right kind of girl.
Think about it, why would you go to pubs and clubs to meet girls? They're obviously there because they enjoy that kind of socialising - you don't, so don't try and meet that kind of woman.
2006-11-26 09:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are still young. Take your time. There is always a time for that. You dont have to go to clubs. One day, it will just come. However, when it doesnt come, then it might be your fate. Be contended & happy with your present situation. Enjoy life!
2006-11-26 09:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about at work. is their no one there that you like.you should try a dance class of some sort their are full of girl. dating agency, gym, their are lots of places to try don't give up. the right girl will come along when you don't expect it. good luck x x
2006-11-26 09:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋