I have recntly come in contact with a married woman online. She is 39 and I am 23. We have really seemed to click (just online right now). It is purely mental right now, but she said over time she may want to build to something physical. As I said she is married but according to her, her husband knows about her unhappiness and straying and has done nothing. Also she states there are reasons outsid of their control why they are together such as a special needs child among other reasons. Normally, I would be against my actions but for some reason I am pursuing this. Should I?
2006-11-26 00:48:22 · 16 answers · asked by SW N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think either of us are expecting a real relationship to come out of this. Just more a distraction from her problems, a friend with benefits from mine, and geuine interest in each other.
2006-11-26 00:54:01 · update #1
Sometimes it is best to let their business be their business and your business with her be your business. Worry about you two and not them, you don't control that. Just keep in mind nothing will probably come of it one way or the other.
2006-11-26 02:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mistervision2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touchy subject - ouch. Bottom line though is that the marriage is between you and him. Should you get married they'll not like it and maybe not accept it but it is your lives. You could create yourselves the martyrs if you like, and maybe he and you would find others closer to your own ages. But you would still always wonder if this marriage would have worked. This marriage can and will work if you have the following ingredients: 1) communication 2) friendship 3) commitment. I do suppose there are other things that make a marriage a success, but having being married for 8 years now I'd say those are the most important.
2016-03-29 09:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very cautious. You do not want to do anything to harm yourself by buying everything she tells you. Some married couples tell others how unhappy they are with their spouses, so people sympathize with them. You never know, but this could be a trap!!! Even if it's not, don't rush things. Wait until she's divorced before getting physically intimate. You're a grownup and can be sued by her husband. Think MANY times before doing anything that may make you regret for the rest of your life. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-11-26 00:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by patience s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you? Depends..
You have no responsability to her husband and their relationship. She is the one who has to worry about that.
You do need to worry about you though. If you fall for her you are going to have to sift through a lot of baggage and she may never choose you over her husband in the end. Big risk.
Alternatively if you want some good s e x only.. do it. A desperate house wife might get off on things no other woman would!
2006-11-26 00:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. Apparently, your own conscience is valued less by you than the opinions of total strangers on Yahoo Answers.
It's really bad medicine to get involved in relationships you
really know nothing about........in fact, it can be really dangerous.....Hopefully, you will wise up before someone loses their temper and makes you pay. There are plenty of available women out there, but if the thrill of danger is the hook for you, I guess you will never learn. Good luck with that!
2006-11-26 00:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wrong in pursuing a married woman, younger or older. You feel that it is not right as well, so listen to what your conscience tells you. I hope you will have the strength to do the right thing. Good luck.
2006-11-26 01:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything inside of me says to tell you no. I do understand this and that your feelings might override everything else. If you know going into this that she is staying with her husband, and she is old enough to be your mother. I think chatting and listening and being friends online should be good enough. I'm sorry I know you want to do this. Whatever decision you make, good luck to you.
2006-11-26 00:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by missy j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no! As someone who lost her first husband to her married "best friend" This idea is going to get allot of people hurt.
Also my first husband turned around and cheated on my ex-friend on multiple occasions. If she cheats on her husband there is an extremely high chance she will cheat on you too.
2006-11-26 00:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married woman alone and find somone who is single. We have enough cheaters in this world
2006-11-26 00:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If everyone accepts that this is going on and that is fine with them all, then sure...
Women in their 30's/40's are fantastic to get physical with... ENJOY IT... Whereabouts in the world is she, and how many men is she enjoying at the momen??? :D
2006-11-26 00:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋