A guy wanted me to confide in him about my relationship to another guy, but I didn't really want to. I asked him why my relationship to another guy mattered to him, to that he replied, "You can tell me if you want to. It's up to you." He said that twice as if it really didn't bother or matter to him, although I didn't believe him. He also told me that it's stupid of me to trust people, then I asked him if I shouldn't trust him either. His response was, "Up to you." What kind of mentality is this? He knows that I've confided to this other guy mentioned above, and it seemed to piss him off. He wanted to know how I came to trust the other guy and not him, although he sounded as if he didn't care if I trust him or not. Why do you think he behaved in this way? Please share with me your opinions on this. Thanks a lot.
2006-11-26 00:46:23 · 5 answers · asked by patience s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just an immature guy who is trying to be controlling. If you seeing and confiding in someone else bothers him, he's got feelings for you.
2006-11-26 00:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Weave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is interested in you. But, he shows too many signs of a person who is a little possesive. iF You got together with him, it would only get worse. Just stay friends with him that is all, he's not mate material. Might even have an abusive tendency.
2006-11-26 08:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is a jerk, or he likes you and wanted to know about your relationship with the other guy.
2006-11-26 08:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me that hes jealous of the other guy knowing more about you than him, but dosent want to admit it so hes kindof shrugging it off.....deep down its bugging the crap out of him
2006-11-26 08:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
praise the lord & he is overcompensating for something small
2006-11-26 08:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by RickeTy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋