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can you leave in kent and have a boyfriend that leaves in london.because i will only see him at weekends,i go to college 3 days a week then work 2 days a week.

2006-11-25 23:53:45 · 23 answers · asked by kwalmi d 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I can't see your problem......... why don't you have a boyfriend in Kent, whom you can see during the week, and a boyfriend in London, whom you can see at weekends.

Remember....... if they are not in the same county then its not cheating!!!! :-)

2006-11-26 00:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 0 0

yes, as long as both of you are willing to make it work. You know, some people even have a relationship across the sea. And some people, although living in the same country, live so far apart that they only see each other like once a month or once a couple of months. Nevertheless, these days, you can use the phone, or sms, or email, or webcam, just to name a few communication methods. Nothing beats seeing the person of course.

plus, if you could have seen each other every day, you'd have a different problem, lol. People who have relationships with people they see everyday at school or work, may wish they could see each other less. So meeting up on weekends being the norm is actually quite a good balance. It also makes you both desire each other more as you look forward to the weekend. I think that is quite healthy.

2006-11-25 23:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0 0

Yes Kent and London are not that far away from each other. At least u won't see too much of each other and u will enoy all the time u have together

2006-11-26 00:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0 0

kent borders london and the trains have improved from this area and run into london on a very regular basis, so yes

2006-11-25 23:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by anni333 2 · 1 0

look at ur priorities. if both of u understand ur priorities, this should not pose a problem. also, make sure u have sufficient channels for communication because the distance might strain one of u or both of u at some point of time.
in fact, i wud recommend this sort of a relationship for ppl who r worried about losing their independence, and yet want to pursue a relationship.

2006-11-26 01:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by placebo 2 · 0 0

Give it a try and see what happends just make sure you can trust him because you wont know if he does wrong!!! Just dont make him your everything when you only see eachothers on the weekend! good luck be careful girl

2006-11-25 23:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by sarahhxoxo 2 · 0 0

You can , but depend on both of you. It is not easy. You go to college and write leave? It is " live "

2006-11-26 00:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 1 0

Of course it can work, what with e-mail, texts mobiles etc. Get yourselves a webcam and software (£30?) from PCWorld/Dabs.com/amazon and get talking online!

2006-11-26 00:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by fozmonkey 2 · 0 0

Yes, it can work but you have to both trust the other. If trust is not there it will cause a problem.

2006-11-25 23:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

For sure...it's much better this way!! You won't be taking eachothr for granted and you'll have less time to argue so you'll make more of an effort not to.

2006-11-26 02:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Little One 4 · 0 0

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