I seperated from my husband two years ago after 20 odd years monogamous marriage. was on own, but having fun for a year but have now met someone and he has moved into my home, with me and my two teenagers.
things are fine that way and we all get on together quite well, apart from the odd raised voice here and there.
It would be nice to have more time on our own though. kids are 16 and 19 so they are able to be left overnight. trouble is though now with christmas coming, money is tight so cant afford to stay away too much. we are settling into this relationship far to comfortable for my liking and would like to spice things up a bit and have a bit more romantic time just the two of us, how can i do it under these circumstances, for him as well as encouraging him to plan things for me
2006-11-25 23:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by anni333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TO TOOL
ok so yes its great, but i want to find waysof keeping it so, dont want to end up in long term stale relationship like last time
2006-11-25 23:44:26 · update #1
sorry that added bit was to boot, not tool, though you sound like a bit of one
2006-11-25 23:45:38 · update #2
seriously throw some sleeping bags and a tent in the back of the car, load up with added booze and bugger off to anywhere. i hope i'm not being offensive but me and my fiance do that when we need to breathe fresh air. metaphorically and physically. a night in the fields in the middle of nowhere (even though its freezing) when you wake up and cuddle as the dawn breaks there is nothing as close as that. forget fancy posh resturaunts, get yer as's out to the countryside and make sure you take a bucket.
2006-11-25 23:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do this even with the kids in the house..just lock your bedroom door at night. When you crawl into bed together just put some romance moves on him..in the morning b4 the kids are up when your alarm goes off..same thing put some of your moves on him--you take the initiative and be creative. With money being tight (i know the feeling) you have to be creative with in the home..send the kids out 2x or 3x a week to their friends house..make his favorite dinner or yours and have a candle lit dinner with some romantic music playing. you have to set things up now befor ethings get to comfortable and relaxed. You want romance tell him thats what you want. Talk to your man and tell him how you feel and that you want to spice things up a bit and have fun with your relationship.
Good luck
2006-11-25 23:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where ur coming from. My husband and I split up in the summer, we are back together, but I worry about the same thing.
We dated for a while before living together again, it was sooooo much fun!
My only tool, is to give him a shock! Men constantly need reminding we don't want to just PLOD along.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 23:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start that ball rolling just set up a romantic evening at home to begin with get the kids out of the house send them to a friends house or somewhere candlelit bubble bath soft music put on some sexy lingerie maybe some wine (or whatever you two drink) talk to each other
2006-11-25 23:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can have a romantic time together.let you teenagers join the camp boot...something like that..just to give you and your hubby sometime together.atleast u r in ur house and u can do anything u want.your teenagers can enjoy with friends..slumber party..u know things like that and im sure it's not an expensive plans.enjoy
2006-11-25 23:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by bisaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the kids to a movie or something plan on doing something that he likes and tell him what you like and if he responds then he loves you. Or else I sound like an idiot, then ignore this answer. Its a difficult question.
2006-11-25 23:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say on your contact page you are ina new relationship and it is "great," but then post a question like this?!? It sounds like you are like most women: deceptive, not straightforward and clueless about what you really want. Excuse me for being blunt, but that's how I see it.
2006-11-25 23:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you can have a nice roamntic dinner at home
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2006-11-25 23:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋