so you can get married in a church of your fiancee´s religion??
2006-11-25 23:03:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i don't believe in religion to begin with. i would never join or convert to please someone else. i have to be true to myself and my native roots.
2006-11-25 23:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Entertain This Thought And Be Honest With yourself.. Does The Fact That One Does Not Belong To The Same Faith As The One They Want to Marry..Deminish The Love They Have For Eachother? If Love Is Love... And Truely Unconditional.. There IsNo Reason For One to Have To Denounce Their Faith In Which They And Possibly Their Family Were Raised To Marry. Man Has Messed Things Up With Their Interpretations Of Religion... Changing What We Are Is Easier Than Changing WHO We Are..
Are You Who You Are Because Of Your Faith...If Not..Then Your Delima Is Simple... However If You Are Who You Are Due To Your Faith.. You Are Being Asked To Change By Someone Who Claims To Love You..
Ultimately The Answer Lies Within You.. If You Can Switch Faiths So Easily.. Then What Value Religion???
Considering (YOUR) Faith Is The (RIGHT) Faith...Since You Were Born Right???... ... It's All Relative To How You Were Raised...
Good Luck
2006-11-25 23:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by J. N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not into the religion, and you haven't adopted it as your lifestyle before you married, then I think that you are going to be a very sad person. You can't be what you aren't for anyone. If you adopted the religion on your own while being with this person and you adapted to the lifestyle of it of your own chosing then that is different. Otherwise, I would say accept me as I am.
2006-11-25 23:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. However, my take on it, is that there should be compromise between couples. One shouldn't just completely give over to the other. But, if you're not very particular in your religion, then go for it. If you don't truly believe in your religion anyway, then it's all in name only, and it won't matter to you. However, if it does matter to you, then you shouldn't have to compromise your beliefs for his. He should love the person you are, and that includes your beliefs. And if you two truly love each other, he wouldn't mind being married through the state.
2006-11-25 23:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by tracethelostboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, many couples have different religions
(Christmakkah). If you yourself feel that religion, then do it. Otherwise, maintain yours, and you both adapt as a couple.
In Judaism, 3 Rabbis try to dissuade you from converting before you can. That makes sense to me.
2006-11-25 23:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I convert each and every few weeks relying on who's having the final fairs and events. Christmas" compliment the lord and bypass the provides. Bacchanalia coming up? harm out the Pan pipes and grease up the ladies. Saturnalia? i could nicely be as pagan because of the fact the subsequent guy. frequently, the religions with the somewhat primitive fertility rituals are the main exciting.
2016-10-17 13:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by saleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows your intention, so your conversion should be a sincere one and not just because you want to get married in the church of your financee.
However, I have seen a lot of cases where people found out about Islam because of a boy/girl friend and they studied before getting married and then accepted it out of sincerity and then they got married.
2006-11-25 23:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Shaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the conversion isn't real, it shouldn't be done. You can't convert for someone else because you won't be happy. You have to do it for yourself.
Just have 2 ceremonies. One for each religion.
2006-11-25 23:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong, wrong, wrong . u don't convert just because u want to marry the person ... it involves a lot of other things like the rational etc.....
Btw. i will not convert for anything. i'm happy with my religion that i'm born with.
2006-11-25 23:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
conversion= to turn around
some people turn to another faith religion in the hope that it is an easier one than their own and usually find this to be a falsehood,
it is not real conversion to trade Christianity for something else, true conversion is to turn from the present habit of sin and disobedience to the will of God, and forming an intimate relationship with Him.
2006-11-25 23:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not really the face-value of religion that counts, it is how believe. One is free to choose his/her affiliations as long as it is for his/her betterment, not for downfall.
2006-11-25 23:15:58 · answer #11 · answered by Jors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋