ok so we broke up ummm this morning, i know he still cares about me and loves me cos it wasnt about that it was about my friends hating him and him hating them. so do i agree with him and say it wasnt wrking and that we would be better off seeing other ppl or do i disagree and remind him of alll the good times and how we could make it wrk?
2006-11-25 22:26:05 · 8 answers · asked by tami_6996 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...he broke up with me and when i say friends i mean aquaintances because he is a great guy and they have been trying to break us up from the time we first got together.
2006-11-25 22:37:42 · update #1
I think you can give it another try .The only thing you must do is to ask him why he hats your friends ,if you think he's only being possessive ,so it's better to end it.
2006-11-25 22:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To save the drama keep them separate in your life. Don't speak about him to them and vice verse.
Go get your man back and let him know he is very important to you. Don't wait for him to start seeing someone else lol Cause you know they are quick lol.
Good Luck and keep them separate. When one is in the house the others aren't. Tell your friends to call before they come and if they don't then only answer the door when you expect company they will get tired of popping up..cock blocking you.
they'll call you to say girl i just knocked on your door, where are you?
you say oh I'm home
they'll say oh didn't you hear the door and you say yes but because i wasn't expecting anyone i knew it was someone that i didn't know was coming...the reason i don't know is because we didn't discuss you coming over today/time. Then say do you remember when i asked from now on for us to discuss when i asked for you to call me before you come over.
Put your foot down with your gf
2006-11-26 06:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is...why do you friends hate him? Doesn't that say something about him? Are you sure you want to get back together? Sometimes, love isn't enough.
After I broke up with my boyfriend, things were never the same again....after 4 years of trying, we broke up. 4 wasted years of trying. Good luck!!!
Now, I am happily married to the man of my dreams. You know when you meet Mr. Right. (and he will know you are Ms. Right.... ^_^)
2006-11-26 06:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Juffrou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell him that you still love and care about him, and that if he loves you, then he can get past your friends and focus on you and him, and he can learn to get along with them. cause hes not dating them, hes dating YOU. Plus tell your friends they can suck it and that if they are really your friends, they will talk to you rationally if they see a problem with him, or they will accept him because you love him and you are their friend.
2006-11-26 06:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Naomi F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have already broke up with him then move on. I think that a relationship should be more important then friends.
2006-11-26 06:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your mate r important but so is a boy friend if i was you i would find someone else but if you really love him get him back what every your friend say
2006-11-26 06:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by i love nick Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on trust me! You are young. There are millions of fish in the sea.
2006-11-26 06:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should talk to him and not listening what people say
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2006-11-26 06:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋