He has kidney failure n is on dialysis for 15 yrs..
he's 31, n me 21..
he's a kind hearted soul..
but when it comes to having sex,
we always hv probs, coz he can get it erected..even after taking
Viagra..
everythng is fine except Sex..!
n i try not to let ths prob affect our relationshp..
Pls advise..how to salvage ths relationshp, coz i love him..
2006-11-25 22:02:47 · 12 answers · asked by rinoao 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean--> HE CAN'T GET IT ERECTED..
2006-11-25 22:04:15 · update #1
you cannot place your sex life above your friendship. because your friendship is far valuable than sex will ever be./ in other words you can live without sex but you cannot live without friendship!!
imagine being a loner with no friends!! can you do that easy?
i doubt that!!
think about it!!!!!!
2006-11-25 22:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by david_strickland31 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have problems with that too and it have been for many years. I think its mostly a mind thing. Maybe he worry about something or afraid to fail, resulting in failure. Dont put pressure on the issue, makes it worse. Do it soft or oral or something and let it go. He need to know that it doesnt really matter and it might come back one day. Well, its a hard question hehe but you are not alone.
2006-11-25 22:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by redacatfish 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People always advise us to put love above of sex. Idealistically we want to agree with that. But think realistically, can you maintain a happy marriage life with only love and not sex? Maybe the doctor can help him, if not, you may need to really think hard, you are only 21, and you may be desparate for sex (which you may not get if you stay with him) for another 30 years.
2006-11-27 13:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to ask yourself one serious qusetion before you commit yourself further in this relationship. Is sex important to you? If it is, then one of you might end up hurting the other partner emotionally sooner or later. You might end up straying, or he might end up refusing to be intimate over time.
If sex isn't an issue to you, then I really don't see why you can't be with this man.
2006-11-25 23:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well, I have to be really honest and say that situation would bother me. You are too young really to have to deal with such adult baggage. We expect these kinds of things as we age and we love the people in our lives in spite of such things, but you are really just too young to be saddled with this thing now. It's not going to get better.
2006-11-25 22:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the times these things can be treated by specialist doctors i know personaly some close friends who had these problem and it was treated by diffrent way other than viagra
2006-11-25 22:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by tariq h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him to ask for a medical help about it, and if meds cant help it, i guess u should be ready to let go of him, since ur only dating but if u love him that much and accept his incapabilities, then he is lucky to have you, i think thats the essence of love.
2006-11-25 22:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a surogate lover in yahoo chat > romance > by location > your state
2006-11-25 22:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody can evaluate if a man is impotent unless he sees a doctor.
2006-11-25 22:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the big deal. If you love him, then you love him
2006-11-25 22:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋