Do you think iam ugly?

Question

Hey guys basically i think iam very ugly because i have been rejected by guys and not mkany of them are interested in me basically iam 5ft2 inches tall my weight is 6 and a half stone iam a size 6-8 i have thick curly wavy hair short to medium length i have dark skin and black hair and dark brown eyes I have blemished skin due to acne and pigmentation due to pregnancy.
Basically My tummy has stretched since pregancy on one occasion a guy told me that my tummy should have gone ages go that i was fat and that I should wear sexy underwear to turn him on and i was eating when i shouldnt be eating and that i was a liar.
So what do you male guys think?Do you think iam ugly?

Answer 1

I have seen the most beautiful looking people and get so disappointed when they turn out to have a horrible personality. They somehow lose their looks to me. Someone who has physical beauty can become the ugliest person on this planet if they have no beauty on the inside. When I was in my early twenties, I went out with this guy, he wasnt the best to look at, but oh my he had confidence oozing out of every pore. He honestly was on the side of ugly, yet there was something about him that attracted women. He was never short of a woman who wanted him. The more I was with him the more beautiful he became to me. He was just wonderful, and you know what, he was the only guy ever in my life who dumped me....so make sense out of that. Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder, it is not a cliche. What about women who were absolutely beautiful who were involved in a car accident and they lost their looks, what did they have left?...some of them very little because they relied on their beauty to get them places.

You need to develop your beauty. It doesnt sound like your physical appearance is ugly at all, its the doubts you have within yourself that is causing all this negativity. The guy who said all those things was an absolute idiot...forget him....tell yourself he is insecure and only happy when he hurts someone elses feelings.

You will find the love of your life who will only have eyes for you, who will think you are the most beautiful woman in all the world. His face will light up the moment you walk into a room. I have never been a thin woman. Ive got a nice face, but always had weight on me. I was never short of a boyfriend....never, ever, ever, and you know why? I have confidence...I like myself, so the beauty I saw in myself was projected to other people. I have a lovely loving personality. I have a love of life. I am opiniated at times.....I am just me. There are people who cant stand me, but there are people who adore me. I think that is how it works with most people. I reckon youve just met the wrong guys. He is out there, but you have to start thinking good things about yourself. You have to work on the parts of you that are feeling this way, and Im not talking about your tummy, Im talking about how you feel about yourself. Do whatever you need to do to find your confidence. I dont believe anyone is ugly, I really dont, except the ones who are mean spirited, the ones who want to say horrible things, the deviates, the child molesters, the horrible people of this world are the ugly ones and I bet you any money you like when a child molester is caught, no-one says he is a hansome man....Its his acts that class him as being beautiful or ugly. Work on your self esteem....start hanging around with positive people. Start doing good things for yourself. I read your profile and you are a very proficient person. You would have a lot of qualities and its those qualities you need to concentrate on, not the negative stuff you seem to think other people think of you. I honestly think you are your own worst enemy...but you can change that. Go and do a self esteem course, it would help you greatly.

You are not Ugly, get that out of your head. You are the most beautiful woman in the world.....tell yourself that every day and soon you will start believing it. The ones who dont find you attractive, well its their loss, but in all honesty why would you want to be involved with shallow people anyway.

Answer 2

No my friend,
Beauty is not our external appearence. First You should washout your inferiority complex. Don't think we are unpleasent or ugly. Do you know Everyone in the world are beauty and handsome? No, there's no difference between each people. B'coz every one gifted by god by some talents. So you don't want to worry about your appearence. You just behave well eith others and express maximum kindness, you willbe treated as beauty. That's all. Thank you for your commitment.
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Answer 3

I think it's tragic that you are asking such a pathetic question. That might explain why you were pregnant. You are so desperate for outside validation that any guy whispering a kind word gets in your pants in about 5 minutes.

Have some self respect and find your good qualities that you can appreciate that have nothing to do with anyone else. You need a stronger core so you don't rely on what a bunch of strangers have to say about your looks.

Answer 4

Sorry, but the first thing you have to do, is STOP seeking validation from men!! I do not mean to offend you, or men. My meaning is just that, in your situation you are seeking answer in the wrong place, and for the wrong reason!! You sound like a nice person. And you have had a baby, so stop beating your self up. Find things to do that make you feel great about yourself, exercise more. You sound like you have a good heart, and that is what counts in the end. Be yourself and no body else. This is what the REAL man is going to love you for.

All the best darling!!! You are beautiful, your beautiful, your beautiful, its true...


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Answer 5

Sounds like you have some possible self esteem issues. You don't need to ask us if you're beautiful. If you think that you are the most beautiful thing in the world then thats what you are. If you feel you need to make some changes then do it because you want to and not because someone else told you to. Bottom line you will always be as beautiful as you think you are.

Answer 6

Every woman has some charm. You may be underrating yourself. You should have seen many a beautiful woman marrying an ugly man and the opposite occurring Go on trying. Don't be discouraged.

Answer 7

Not being able to see you kind of defeats the object of this question, but if it's any consolation, you're porbably no where near as ugly as you think. That guys comments don't mean a thing. The opinions of someone who's as willing to hurt a person's feeling in such a way don't count.

Answer 8

Beauty is in the eye of beholder. Sorry for the cliches but you have to ask yourself...What kind of guy are you searching for?
If you are looking for jerk who only wants sex, then you better talk with plastic surgeons to get some work done...
If you are looking for Mr.Right, then you better ask yourself...Do I have the characteristic of Mrs. Right?
If you are looking for Mr. average, then you should looks and talk like Mrs. Right.

On a sidenote: Do a Body Mass Index to see if you falls into average weight or overweight. If you are average weight, you can tell yourself that you look better than overweight women.
Nevertheless, different guys have different taste...

Answer 9

I have a friend, who is all that you describe of yourself in appearance. I on the other hand am tall, slender and attractive, but guess what ... it is my friend who oozes confidence and seems to win friends a lot faster than me. She has such a delightful personality, because she is always happy and humorous. She makes herself at ease with who ever she meets right away and they take to her so quickly. We go into a shop and the store attendants seem to look only at her when they speak about the product. At a party when we are standing in a group and chatting, whoever is speaking seems to look only at my friend when they are talking, even though they are talking to the group. Don't you think it has something to do with personality and nothing to do with the way one looks?

Answer 10

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I met a guy a year or so, an old guy, who said to me ' whoever you meet, try and learn something and find something positive from them'. God, there are interesting and colourful people out there with so much to give. Looks are only a small part.