Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to ***** about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? well any way before we were going out he started to text me and asked me out also he said he wouldnt dump me because he "Loved" me. We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy!
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic
2006-11-25 21:25:31 · 9 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-25 21:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think it's worth your time or trouble? Vengeance really isn't what some purport it to be! I suggest that you compare him to the things that make a true friend, and let it go.
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Honestly, your spelling is better than many others!
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2006-11-25 21:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, sweety, you are way too young. You should be playing sports, doing school work, etc. Don't try to grow up too fast.
Boys take so long to mature anyway (usually after age 30)- it is not worth your time. He's just driving you crazy- ignore him and it will probably tick him off more in the long run :o)
2006-11-25 21:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by KJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh me oh my oh-sorry, but what do 13 year olds know of "love"
clearly what you are writing about has nothing to do with LOVE.
please, find something else to do with your excess time then play all these hurt me, then i hurt you games. trust me, they will destroy your soul and you'll need your soul as you grow older!
oh and for your last question-he is not driving you crazy-you are doing that to yourself. you have a choice not to-can you make that choice or are you sucking up the drama with gusto...take a deep breath and listen to the voice inside you that you are blurring with all this nonsense. you are only 13! Go have some fun with your friends and forget about this guy-you are lucky you aren't in the same school!
2006-11-25 21:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Yeah it's normal. Don't waist too much time on this he sounds like a real loser. You will meet plenty of other guys, but he probably won't meet many other girls. Enjoy your teenage life and don't get too serious about relationships until your 18. Good Luck in school.
2006-11-25 21:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you're young, you have your whole life ahead of you, don't try and get back at him, you will only be as bad as him.
Move on, and someday you will look back and laugh, it's all going to be a big joke on him, hopefully he will grow up, but you will be the bigger and better person because you moved on and you will never look back and feel ashamed for hurting him. It's not worth it.
2006-11-25 21:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. for 13 you are quite ahead of yourself. and i thought i was young (19). honey, he says he loves you, b/c that's how little boys manipulate little girls. but you... you don't seem to be so little, if you catch my drift. trust this. every man reaps what he sews. he'll get his without you ever having to take part in it. besides, this kind of guy... by the time he gets to highschool all the girls will already have it figured out that he's a dog.
2006-11-25 21:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by chasing amy...? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13!! You don't love anybody at that age! And you have a cell phone? Jeez, kids these days! As for your language; careful, your parents may be reading...
2006-11-25 21:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Deerskin45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you're in a annoying issue yet i will attempt my ultimate to assist. You by no ability ought to have permit him take %. of you on your underclothes, yet i'm particular you have found out from that, so I won't lecture you. first of all, do no longer believe a word he says. i'm particular he did no longer delete the %and regardless of if he did, as quickly as something is on the internet, this is there perpetually regardless of in case you delete it. i'm sorry to allow you recognize yet that %would be on line perpetually. and that i'm particular he will instruct his buddies. I do accept as true with Ms. Cherry which you will desire to locate an person which you will believe to talk to approximately this because of the fact it should be dealt with probably legally and in case you could no longer communicate on your mothers and fathers, you ought to talk with somebody. they are going to probably locate out besides and in case you clarify it, i'm particular they are going to understand. yet once you could no longer communicate on your mothers and fathers, locate yet another kinfolk member you could believe (grandparents, aunt, uncle, cousin) or possibly a chum's mom/dad. i've got self assurance that he could nicely be compelled to get rid of the %and if he does blackmail you, this is for particular unlawful. yet you could desire to get this dealt with now till now it gets any worse. additionally, I ought to allow you recognize that i recognize this is annoying to believe as quickly as you have been betrayed (i've got been there) yet you could no longer permit what occurred with a million or 2 adult men harm your concept of each and every guy you meet reason there are various advantageous adult men available. you in basic terms ought to locate them. additionally, by no ability take your existence, even in a issue like this. you're nicely worth so plenty extra effective than that. If it gets somewhat undesirable, the worst that would take place is you will possibly ought to regulate faculties and doubtless flow to a diverse state, yet you will possibly nonetheless be alive. So do no longer take your existence. which would be stupid. i'm hoping I helped and that i'm hoping it gets extra useful. good success! and don't hassle, this jerk gets what's coming to him.
2016-10-17 13:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by saleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋