What do I do, my religion believes in chastity but I love sex, will God hate me if I keep doing it?

Question

I just got divorced and I'm still wanting to be with someone sexually but I don't want God to hate me. What should I do?

Answer 1

God does not hate people he Loves you but he does hate sins, Jehovah God provided sex as a present for married couples to enjoy, but if you have sex out of marriage you Will actually be stealing the present before he gives it to you, how would you feel if you had a present that you specially picked out for some one, and you were looking forward to give it to them,and that person came in to your house and just took it, before, you had the chance, to give it to them, how would you feel about the person?Just think about it, would you not be disappointed with them? So really you might need to consider self control and the best thing you could do is study the Bible and what it says about these things,you may find more understanding of the reasons behind these things and why God tells us to wait to enjoy sex within marriage! God will bless you if you try to do things by his instructions and you can also pray to him to help you anytime and to be controlling yourself with respect to him Jehovah God is not a God of hate but he is a God of Love he knows your needs and your wants feel free to talk to him often in prayer ask for his help in understanding his word and for help with self control, because even though God expects us to listen to him, he is there to help us accomplish his advice too

Answer 2

God does not hate anyone, there are many people in the Bible who committed adultry many times King David, King Solomon and Mary Magndaene just to name a few, God Loves us all. But he also wants us to find the right partner to be faithful with so we can be happy.

Answer 3

God doesn't hate anybody and he doesn't reject anybody, but sometimes we reject Him. Jesus said that the purpose of God's Law is to free us from bondage to sin, which comes from a Greek word which means to miss the mark, or fail to obey God's Commandments.

That being said, it depends somewhat on which religion you are. To a Catholic like me, any form of sex outside of marriage is a mortal sin. You can always go to confession, but its value is limited if you intend to commit the same sin again. Since there are so many denominations of Protestantism, it may depend on which you are, assuming you're Protestant. The key is to try and resist temptation, avoid situations that would expose you to temptation, and pray for strength. Also, try to remember that we as a society overemphasize sex. Having sinned myself, I can tell you that one nighters are nowhere as fulfilling or enjoyable as sex with just one person as there's no intimacy or real love there.

Answer 4

When temptation comes FIGHT IT with scripture. That's what Jesus did! 3 times He quoted Deuteronomy when the Devil came at Him. When I'm tempted with women, I sometimes say "I've made a covenant with mine eyes, when then should I look upon a maiden?" it's from Job. And when you fight evil with the sword of the spirit (the bible) Ephesians 6 it REALLY WORKS! give it a try, pray in your mind or out loud. Jesus is here for you!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Ur a dirty minded lady, we choose to feel the way we do, NO excuses, if u think like this then deep down u must be sad and insecure, have some sel respect girl and dignity, most guys get turned off from people like u, thats y u people end up lonely , sad and ashmed later on in life, ur demeaing to other women and rape victinms, ur an insult, Its always the average looking unattractive women who think like YOU, maybe its cus dey CAN'T hold a man cuz men dont find them that attractive enough to respect them or be with them for the long term, Slim, pretty , fair skinned women always respectable, securee and smart and never degrade themselves, we realy feel sorry for u we really do, and using relgion aswell into it, u must b twisted.

Answer 7

You must practice self control if you are a Christian. Self control is one of the fruits of the spirit. If you continue in sin, knowing that it is wrong in God's eyes, you won't have any peace. And don't forget that if you have unrepentent sin in your life, the Lord will not even hear your prayers. The Bible says he will turn his face from you until you repent. So, is it worth it???

Answer 8

What is the use of accepting religion when you don't want to obey the teachings of God? In this case Satanism may be more suitable to you.

Answer 9

God never hate humans. we are the one who hate Him (sometimes) He's the source of kindness and all the good things. about the sex thing, I'm not sure I guess you just have to keep praying to God.. Good luck !! GBU !!!

Answer 10

Why not try looking for another wife? There are some beautiful women, both spiritually and physically in this world. Look for a principled woman as is described at

Proverbs 31:(HSCB)

In Praise of a Capable Wife
10 Who can find a capable wife? (N) [i]
She is far more precious than jewels. [j]
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will not lack anything good.

12 She rewards him with good, not evil,
all the days of her life.

13 She selects wool and flax [k]
and works with willing hands.

14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from far away. (O)

15 She rises while it is still night (P)
and provides food for her household
and portions [l] for her servants. (Q)

16 She evaluates a field and buys it;
she plants a vineyard with her earnings. (R) [m]

17 She draws on her strength [n]
and reveals that her arms are strong. (S)

18 She sees that her profits are good,
and her lamp never goes out at night. (T)

19 She extends her hands to the spinning staff,
and her hands hold the spindle. (U)

20 Her hands reach [o] out to the poor,
and she extends her hands to the needy. (V)

21 She is not afraid for her household when it snows,
for all in her household are doubly clothed. [p]

22 She makes her own bed coverings; (W)
her clothing is fine linen (X) and purple. (Y)

23 Her husband is known at the city gates,
where he sits among the elders of the land. (Z)

24 She makes and sells linen garments;
she delivers belts [q] to the merchants.

25 Strength (AA) and honor are her clothing, (AB)
and she can laugh at the time to come. (AC)

26 She opens her mouth with wisdom,
and loving instruction [r] is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the activities of her household (AD)
and is never idle. [s]

28 Her sons rise up and call her blessed.
Her husband also praises her:

29 "Many women [t] are capable,
but you surpass them all!" (AE)

30 Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, (AF)
but a woman who fears the LORD will be praised.

31 Give her the reward of her labor, [u]
and let her works praise her at the city gates.

One might say I have been burned or am affraid of taking another chance with a woman, many take great chances when buzzing from one woman to another(vd, emotional hurts etc) Sex is a marvelous gift but it is not ours to abuse. There are many serious consequences in fornication(all aspects of immoral sex)

At least in marriage one is on track of legitimate intimacy that God can indeed bless, with the right effort on our part, after all who created the sex organs in such a marvelous way, for ultimate enjoyment. Like any apparatus or invention there are instructions, one needs to read and follow otherwise we can ruin the workings of the item.--The instructions for family, life, sex etc are found in the Bible , not necessarily religion--
In fornication--there is no blessing from above.

When we acknowledge where life and its wonderful aspects come from there are blessings as stated
James 1:17 Every generous act and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights; with Him there is no variation or shadow cast by turning. (E)

We can reject that idea & do our thing but there are returns from ill & healthy endeavors. In reference to business matters there are 2 laws 1-Law of increasing returns & 2--the law of deminishing returns These 2 different consequences apply in all aspects of life.

If you are a believer in God and in his ways, why not benefit from what the real workings of God's Holy Spirit(active force) is as Galatians 5 states:

22 But the fruit of the Spirit (P) is love, (Q) joy, (R) peace, patience, (S) kindness, (T) goodness, faith, [d] 23 gentleness, (U) self-control. (V) Against such things there is no law. Jesus recommended the asking for Holy Spirit(not the third godhead of the trinity)
Luke 11:11-13 (Holman Christian Standard Bible)
Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

11 What father among you, if his son [a] asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead of a fish? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, who are evil, (A) know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father (B) give [b] the Holy Spirit (C) to those who ask Him?"
This involves sincere prayer. These are aspects you might want to consider & put in practice.

Sincerely,
THA