What are the signs a man is a player?

Answer 1

Fifteen Signs That He's A Player

The term “player” is derived from the old phrase, “playing the field.” A player has a talent for saying and doing all the right things to get women emotionally involved. Players are not to be confused with dogs. The difference between the two is, a dog is interested only in sex for recreational purposes. A player is interested in capturing a woman’s heart. Players have no real interest, however, in becoming emotionally involved themselves. They usually are very good in bed. They should be; they have had lots of practice!

A player is fully aware of the fact that women are receptive to men who possess a sense of humor, are confident, smile, are good looking, well-groomed, romantic, and have the ability to create an emotional connection with them. A player will develop, master, and exploit these qualities to run his game. He will modify his approach and his entire behavior, if necessary, to suit the circumstances and a female subject of his desire.

How can a woman recognize a player before she gets involved with him emotionally?

By their very nature, players usually are narcissists. They have larger egos than other men, especially where women are concerned. Here are fifteen signs that the man is a player:

-He prefers women pursue him.
-He is smooth, polished, and articulate in his verbal communications.
-He is a sharp dresser.
-He is in good physical shape.
-He likes for women to spend money on him.
-He is confident and doesn’t get nervous when you ask him tough questions.
-He goes to nightclubs and bars by himself.
-He will stand rather than sit in a club. Standing allows him to keep his options open.
-He usually drinks premium liquor.
-He rarely answers his telephone and uses voice mail and caller ID to screen his calls.
-His place is clean, well furnished, and decorated.
-He reads women’s magazines. One of the best ways to learn how women think and act is to read what they read.
-He routinely asks to see you on short notice.
-He doesn’t introduce you to his friends and family.
-He is more handsome than you think you deserve.

The best way to deal with a player is to always maintain a position of control. Don’t make yourself too available for him. Let him know that you are just a little out of his reach, and that he must pursue you. If he tries to play on your emotions or control you in any way, think twice about getting involved with him!

A woman never forgets the one man she could have had. A player never forgets the one woman he couldn’t have.

This is true for all men, but it is particularly true for a player. Every player has a story to tell that involves the one woman he couldn’t play or the one woman who played him. When a player is unsuccessful getting a woman emotionally involved, especially after having sex with her, he will spend the rest of his playing days wondering why he failed or why he was played.

Mustn't forget this one too: He watches other girls, even in your presence... Openly flirts others, doesn't introduce you as a girlfriend.

Answer 2

The signs are that if ur with a guy that has a lot of money and gose off alone all day long and rides around in his car and sneeks out at night also uses a cell phone a lot than u got a player i know cus somebody i know dose that all the time every day.

Answer 3

The only real way you could find out, is to be with him a while and watch his actions. If he receives a cell phone call and doesn't share the message with you, then he is hiding something.
Or if he cuts your date short after receiving a call then you know he has other arrangements. Unless his grand ma fell down three flights of stairs and shattered her hip bone, well then that is a different story. Spend time with him and see what happens, and don't fall in love with him until you know for sure that you can trust him.

Answer 4

First u have to be realistic and ask urself is this guy out of ur league, as in can he do better then u, because let me tell u something, guys will never playa pretty slim girl, thats a fact, belive me on this, guys always play women who they see as temporarliy and know they can get better, its human nature for guys to be into looks, if u truly belive deep down this guy can get a better looking girl even if ur got a decent personality then u have to think he might be a player, if he desrespects u, makes fun of u, gets bored, just there for the sex maybe, looks at other women, ignores u, talks to u as though ur below him like all confidently then there is a defeinate sign he aint gonan be around forever, as i said guys always want slim pretty girls, even if u got a heart there will always be prettier slim girls with a heart aswell and he will go to them, but if he dont wanan know then let him do, or if ur there just for sex then u got no need to care if he plays or not cuz he can have sex or be with another girl for longterm.

Answer 5

If he acts way too cocky, doesn't pay as much attention to you as he does his friends, talks crap about women when he's around his friends, has had way too many short term relationships, if he tries messing with your head telling you, "you'll never find anyone like me". Hope that helps, I had a player for 3 years and know them pretty well.

Answer 6

I think every man can be a player until he finds the one. Men arent really that much different than us. When you find the one who you fall for I believe it can change a man to settle down, but usually they will play until they find the one who they fall for.

Answer 7

It's in the eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul. Once doubt is set, it's all over..... Don't drag yourself on - it's a waste of Your Valueable Time!!

Answer 8

Does he tell you that your beautifull, you have a great smile, I want to be with you forever on your first date? If so Yea he's a player.

Answer 9

Define "player"

Answer 10

He only calls you around 11pm or only calls every one or two weeks. He makes frequent calls or answers his cell phone when you are on a date with him.

He may even tell you that he dates many women.