do anal and we have tried a couple of times, but she says she is scared it is going to hurt to much. Any tips on how to get it started.
2006-11-25 20:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And do you girls that do it like it?
2006-11-25 20:59:44 · update #1
Start with fingers and work your way up. If your wife gets wet, there is no need for extra lube, just use her own juices. Take it slow, and eventually one day, she'll like it.
2006-11-25 23:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to turn her on so she is relaxed. I would also use lots of Lube try one finger then two and then a small toy. Once she is liking it then slip it up don't pull it all the way out again just about an inch out you will still enjoy it and so will she. I am sure you will love this. Then pull it out when you have *** as it will be smaller.
2006-11-25 21:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jinxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use anal ease and alot of it.. and it's going to be uncomfortable the first few times, but start with one finger then two then three and do it slowly, then you can use your *you know* but take it easy on her the first few times you do it.. and try not to let it come out while your in the middle of it cause sometimes it hurts getting it back in when your beginner... hope this helps...
2006-11-25 21:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by BrideofTyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt, but the best tip I can give you is to use lube and a small toy. Like a ********* to make her hole wider
2006-11-25 21:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start slow with your fingers and use lots of lube. it doesnt alwyas work the first time. but if both people want it dont give up... just remember if your on top she still needs to be in control, you can physicaly damage someone if your not careful.
2006-11-25 21:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by FuSioN` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is give it a miss if youwere scared of something else you would not do it so why do this if she is scared. Ijust cannot see the point.
2006-11-25 21:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife is a brave girl try analease its a lubricant that has a little lidocaine in it for some numbing action.. Oh and always go slow...
2006-11-25 21:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly does it,she should love it after a couple of times
2006-11-25 20:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only hurt if you're not gentle ...lots of lube and finger play to start with x
2006-11-25 21:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tongue and fingers to start with. Lube and patience!
2006-11-25 20:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋