He gives them & buys them anything they want ! Not only that he lets them disrespect me ! & when i try 2 disapline them he say's im a bad mother ! We have 4 children ! 2 r grown! 1 is 18 & lives with him now ! i have 1 15 living with me & the 1 tha lives with me already has a scolarship 4 colledge ! the 1 that lives with him didnt graduate! & they r lying 2 me about that ! & when he comes 2 pick up my 16 year old 2 bring her 2 his mother house .The 18 year old is with him in the car !!!! & she doesnt get out the car 2 say hello !!!!!! & her father had a nerve 2 say he has nothing 2 do with her speaking 2 me !! but yet he had a nerve 2 say im a bad mother ! telling me i need 2 sit & talk with her ! how can u sit with some1 that doesn't even ecknoldge you r their mother !!!!?
2006-11-25 20:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by viciousviv56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I personally wouldn't care.
I have an 11 year old son and I still couldn't comprehend the ability to have any attachment to someone that didn't want to associate with me for any reason.
2006-11-25 20:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes it really hard on you as a mother. I go through the same thing only we are seperated and he is remarried. My boys, 6 and 9 go to there dad's every other weekend and they come home acting crazy. The step mom says well since we don't get them all the time we don't want to get onto them. Whatever! I don't know what to do. When I say something to my ex he trys to act like I'm being crazy
2006-11-25 20:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously stressed while writing that and i really dont get the gist but what matters is your beliefs you cant change others, keep on doing what you are doing living your life and your morals...if who ever it is wont talk to you isnt that their choice? Tough to them but you need to get some counselling to deal with this stuff or you are going to wear out the ! key button on your keyboard.All people make choices in life and some we dont agree with but at the end of the day we cant control anyones choices but our own...good luck
2006-11-25 21:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other day my 23 year old son told me something he had told someone. I asked him so how come he never talks to me like that? He responded, "Are you kidding me??? You would kick my ***!!"
He wasn't lying or over exaggerating, he spoke the truth.
2006-11-26 00:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Family Feud.
Go on strike for a few weeks and see what happens.
If they need you, they will seek your help.
Should they not come to you...You have lost all influence with them.
Good Luck
2006-11-25 20:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a real prob. when u two decided to separate you should have taken a parenting class, this will be hard to fix sorry. but no my husband does not do this i am harder on them than he is most of the time
2006-11-25 20:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by LesHug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-25 20:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by zarei_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋