How can a woman make sure that she ends up with a non abusive husband?
The reason i asked is that i noticed someone in my family is abusive. Well one of my brothers.He even called me a ***** once and i fought back telling to never EVER call me that. I fought him head on and he even tried to charge towards me to scare me. I didnt move a centimeter!
However im sorry for my sister in law. SHe has to put up with that crap. When we were kids, I would have never imagined my bro to turn out like that. He is a pessimistic person but to add the verbal abuse to it does not sit well with me.
My dad was also verbally abusive towards the end of his life. After he passed we discovered he had a huge head injury which explained his bizzare personality change. He was also controlling and he controlled everything( money wise, he would not give out a penny unless he really had to.)
2006-11-25
20:17:01
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I read alot about abusive relationships, the patterns, the cycles..all the different signs of a potential abusive relationship.
I also noticed a pattern in my family. The women who were stuck in such a predicament often married the man after a short period of time and didnt really get the chance to date the person. Also in the culture dating was considered a bad thing of some sort.
How can i make sure i end up with a god husband who will be kind and not abusive?
2006-11-25
20:17:29 ·
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