i know this girl in my class and she has a crush on my friend, im almost 100% sure. my friend dont like her back (she doesnt know that). would i be dumb to ask her out? or shoudl i wait till she finds out my friend has no interests in her
2006-11-25 20:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you are a good man already because you are taking both of their feelings and your future into consideration before you act. DO NOT RUIN IT FOR HER. don't you dare be the one to tell her. she will hate you. if he is your friend and he's truly not interested in her you can ask for his assistance in winning a date with her. now this is a little complicated so hang on. first of all remember the goal. you want a date with her...why? because you think she's the bomb. now if she's not forget the whole thing. but...if you are serious and you like her, here's what you can do. ask him to help you, i'm assuming he's a good guy like yourself. ask him to come with you to the movies and ask her if she wants to come with you and him to the movies. ask him to bring a girl he likes. everyone gets to go to the movies and nobody has to be hurt or rejected. buy her popcorn and sit next to her. don't let her sit next to him. and make sure he holds the other girl's hand or something to that affect. if he goes along with it, you'll be better buddies and have a story to tell. if he doesn't then just wait for another opportunity. if she's in your class you can do all kinds of things to get close to her. ask her the answer to a question as you are walking out of the class. make sure it's one you think will be on a test so you can thank her for it later. do that a couple of times. then see if she'll eat lunch with you. just try to get close to her without acting like a stalker. and don't play games.
keep acting like you are, you sound like a nice guy. when she finds out what you did, tell her you didn't want her feelings to be hurt, you did it for her, and you think she's the bomb or you wouldn't have done it. and you are better than him, just kidding
2006-11-25 20:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by just a carpenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is not a stupid idea,, n u already care for her...its no harm asking her out. maybe u shud talk to her first n then ask her out..who knows she might have the feelin dat ur friend doesnt like her..n at the moment she needs soemone...go ahead,,all de best.
2006-11-26 04:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's the "guy code" about not asking a girlfriend out or a former girlfriend..... but she was never his girlfriend and he's not interested in her.
You can ask her out yourself. Why not? But if she goes out with you and starts talking about him, let her know he is not interested in her. You might check that with him before you ask her out though.... make sure.
Best Wishes.
Sue
2006-11-26 04:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection hurts. Flirt with her. Do not ask her out for at least 1 month.
2006-11-26 04:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to speak to your friend about your liking for her first...Before he thought that you're doing things behind his back to win the girl over...
2006-11-26 04:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a person has to ask if it's a stupid idea, it is. But in this case, it isn't. Go for it!!!
2006-11-26 04:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend don't like her go for it!
2006-11-26 04:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait.
2006-11-26 04:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't try you don't have a chance!
2006-11-26 04:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by adept_thinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋