I learned something today that most of us guys are dogs we cheat, lied , and just do dumb things to see if we can get away with it. I learned this the hard way after 10 months of on and off dating with this one girl i realzied that I treated her so bad but yet stayed around untill today. Today she finally had enough of my crap and all it took was for me to do stuff with her best friend. Im not saying all guys are bad there are some good ones out there and there some bad ones and I just noticed I'm one of the bad ones. I love this girl so much but yet I went and did something with her best friend. That was very low of me and I whish I could do something to make it up to her. What should I do? Is there anything i can do?
2006-11-25 18:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least you can own up to what you did and admit that what you did was so wrong. My boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago and I took him back. Since then, he has done everything and tried so hard to make me trust him again. It will take awhile, but I am trying and I think he is trying too. All I can say to you is if you want her back, you have to earn the trust back. You have to be sure that you won't hurt her again. I know how it feels and I was depressed for a long time. You don't want her to be miserable. If you can't stay faithful, then let her go. But, if you honestly think you can, then try your best to prove that to her. Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can't imagine there's anything you can do or say. Being cheated on is bad enough but when he cheats with your best friend (soon to be ex I'll bet) I don't know how you would ever trust the guy again. You have to accept it's over because of what you did and I do think you should still find a way to say you're sorry to her. I think you owe her that.
It's good you realize just how low what you did was. Hopefully you learn from it and don't do it again to the next girl.
2006-11-26 02:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just proved that you're man enough to admit AND take responsibility for your mistakes! My ex did something similar to me and I took him back because I truly loved him.I guess that is the true ? for her to answer.Trust is a big issue and you took it away.I applaud you for at least being honest.I'd just give her some time and do some "*** kissin"
2006-11-26 02:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by madmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt there is anything you can do to get her back. Once you make the mistake of sleeping with her best friend or sister or anyone that close to her then it is pretty much over.
2006-11-26 02:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you deserve to be dumped. I hope she got half of everything. Better yet, I hope she got everything. After you get married, think about your finances. Think divorce in California. Think about that lousy, cockroach-infested apartment you will be living in if you step over the line one too many times.
2006-11-26 02:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You blew it, you know it, move on. You and her ex-friend deserves each other, and the girl you wronged will find someone that deserves her.
2006-11-26 02:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly I don't think that there is any help I delt with it for 3 years.
2006-11-26 02:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try...you wouldn't know what she is capable of...maybe...just maybe she can still find it in her heart to forgive you..
of course, she may forgive but she may not take you back as well...you have to respect that..
2006-11-26 02:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you can cheat on her then you dont love her. but if she was like me, we would just have a 3some and get over it. u should really hit me up. pinewood_girl@yahoo.com
2006-11-26 02:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by D-Lo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
for god sake leave her alone and suck it up! you deserve everything you get.
2006-11-26 18:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋