the main question:
I want to move on from liking a guy that has nevered made a move. Help.
I liked this guy for so long and I'm sick of it. we are just friends and l love all the times i can spend with him but I want to be more. I've tried to flirt more with him but I'm beging to think he just wants to be friends with me and nothing more. whatever....
I cant move on to like any one other than him. what should i do. I can't stop thinking of him.
If he liked me do you think he would have done something by now? Why do i have to do the first move only to get shoot down.
I Know I need to tell him How i feel, and i really want to. but i want to be able to like other guys with out thinking about him.
2006-11-25 18:02:24 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want answer my other question
2006-11-25 18:21:00 · update #1
You've flirted with him, so you have already told him how you feel.
Time to limit the amount of time you spend with him. As you do that, you will find other things to do and people to be with and he will not be so much a part of your life. The less you are with him, the less you will hurt because your attention will be elsewhere and the more chance you have to meet someone that does like you.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 18:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this helps.... Before my fience became more then just a friend he helped me out with a similar situation... But as i was told and its true.... If you love someone its ALWAYS gonna be there regardless of how you try to turn it off.. Trust me this is very true, however if you never tell him how you truely feel then he will never know, then your gonna beat yourself up with the what if's... Tell him how you feel and see where it goes from there, things might go as you want, if not just remember that Love cant hurt its the ultimate of all goodness so no evil can come of it... Just pick yourself up and know that you love him and be content with that... BUT MOST importantly have NO REGRETS>>>>. i hope that helped..
2006-11-26 02:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in this situation is stressful and it sounds like you have reached a point where you have to get this resolved so I think you have to tell him. But be sure you are ready to have things change because once you tell him they will---maybe for the better and maybe not. If he feels the same it will be great but if he doesn't your friendship may survive but be awkward for awhile or the friendship may not survive at all.
2006-11-26 02:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wnat him to know how u feel TELL HIM! guys make the 1st move all the time and risk getting shot down. if u wanna date and be a grown up u need thick skin sometimes. everyone gets shot down sometimes. thats life. there is nothing wrong with being shot down. it happens. u have to take the risk if u want the reward
2006-11-26 02:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 tell u but,he want's 2 b friends,face it he has'nt made a move on u yet.find sum 1 else.
2006-11-26 02:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by robyn b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your horizons.You will find someone better for you or it will be a wake up call to the guy your crushing.Either way,,things will move forward.
2006-11-26 02:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously, there's really only one way to solve this problem for sure: tell him how you feel, if he doesn't feel the same then you'll be fine....after some time of course, but at least you won't be regreting for wut might be years at wut you didn't do. sumtimes you need 2 make the first move, guys usually have their brains on pause and he probably won't realize wut was gonin on between you 2 until it's 2 late....either that or he's scared...
2006-11-26 02:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by bE_EAzY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth shall set you free.
2006-11-26 02:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by dijboutiusly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him how you feel.You might regret it if you don't!
2006-11-26 02:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by madmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL .IF IT DON'T WORK OUT . MOVE ON .
2006-11-26 02:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋