Suppose you had a gf and the 2 of you were intimate at times but not everytime you saw each other.
He says I don't try to turn him on or arouse him often enough.
He doesn't feel wanted, or desired. He doesn't think he "turns me on" but he most certainly does!!
Would you break up with a gf because she was not sexually aggressive?
2006-11-25 17:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bet you didn't have a lot of deep conversations, did you? It would seem that this was a pretty shaky relationship to start with, based mainly on sex (in his mind anyway).
You're not out anything here. There are so many more facets to a relationship than sex. If you don't work at a well rounded relationship, then it doesn't have enough of a support structure to sustain itself.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fk NO..
ur dude is an immature moron f he thinks this way..
i like intimacy don get me wrong, but there is soooo much more to love than sex.
love is feeling.
STRONG FEELING.
evn fr a guy.
the kind if guys that u want r nice, and do not want to hurt other people.
i would never break up with a gf bc of unaggressiv axn.
F-THAT LOVE IS DEEP. not only about sex.
hey good luck.
spoonman.
2006-11-26 02:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by spoonman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i personally wouldn't do that. some guys would though. maybe u should do something to make him feel wanted. most nice guys won't make a move on their GF if he feels like he's gonna get rejected. why don't u make him feel like he turns u on? talk dirty to him or wear some langerie next time u go out, try to put your hands all over him and rub his body. that should do the trick
2006-11-26 01:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not at first.
Only after being honest and seeing no attempts at trying to compromise for my feelings would I break up.
If you have issues with being like he asks then discuss this with him and see what you two can work out.
2006-11-26 02:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes not getting it from you, hes going to get it somewhere else!
2006-11-26 03:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by mrls_one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get what youre trying to say. can u explain a bit mre?
2006-11-26 01:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Pandemonium 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no give her time to split u. just then wait and cee.
2006-11-26 02:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should buy him a bag of doritos and make love
2006-11-26 01:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i would not
2006-11-26 02:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!
2006-11-26 01:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋