My bf has broken my trust by having relation with some other girl nd never agreed with it that he has with someone other. I also dont want to say him wrong. I just say him that if u have with someone other then its ok as its my bad luck but if u r right then just think that i have not believed u nd i was wrong but now we cant be together. We r just friends if we ever meet each other in life then we will just talk 2 each other as a friend. He say me that he has never got a true friend in life when he say this then my heart says that if he is saying that he has never got a true friend then what should i say who has lost her everything beven then i dont want to say him wrong. What should i say him when he say these words every time.
2006-11-25 17:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HIM HE IS WRONG...BECOZ HE HAS YOU AS HIS TRUE FRIEND....
2006-11-28 21:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, verify that he had a relation with some other girl and try to find proof that the relation was something other than platonic or friendly. If so, then just confront him with the truth and ask for an explanation. If he tells you that he never got a true friend, then tell him that you have never been cheated in life and that will surely shut him up.
if, on the other hand, you don't come up with other proof, think if you want to go around with him again. If you still have feelings for him, tell him beforehand what you dislike and tell him what you do not tolerate. And if he steps out of line the next time, break up with him forever. Also, remember to be loyal as you expect him to do the same. The rules apply to both of you.
2006-11-25 18:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are 2 sides to this question: If the guy who lied became one you have met in flesh and blood, then you somewhat can consistently supply him/her a 2nd time. you could harm the deceive him in lots of approaches. A 'small lie' is a 'lie' after all. One lie does bring about significant different lies. this is a chain reaction. yet, you could believe that guy or woman in case you experience that the lie became harmless and not approximately any grave be counted touching directly to you. however the example you have stated IS diverse. Over the internet have you ever contacted that guy or woman. Now, tell me one element. without understanding plenty approximately that guy or woman how are you able to call for believe from that guy or woman? First tell him promptly on your digital mail with reference to the lie. next, see what he says. Then, gauge his respond. ultimately, you are the extra useful prefer to proceed the touch or cancel the link!
2016-10-17 13:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is making a fool of you. If he had not got a true friend before knowing you, it was his bad luck. But that does n ot mean that he should be given any consideration except for a genuine sympathy.
Now when he has come to know oyu and if you are really sincere, why should he look for anybody else?
GOT THE ANSWER?
Leave him.
2006-11-26 00:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't deserve this. If you had any self respect then you'll leave this guy.......not even be friends. He doesn't deserve your love and now friendship also. You realise he's only emotionally blackmailing you to gain your sympathy as he ditched you and in turn got ditched.
Dear start a new life with new dreams. Focus on your studies or career and love will definitely happen one day!!!! Amen.
2006-11-28 18:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sangeeta dear, did your so called bf ever acknowledged you as his gf in the first place? If he is your bf, you should have known him better to trust him and ask if he ever consider you as his "true friend". If it is - fine, no worries here but if he is undecisive about the relationship....hey let remain as friend..no heart feelings!
2006-11-25 18:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You think in two minds. You ought to choose one simple course to go no looking again at the un -trustworthy .
2006-11-25 18:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be hasty coming to conclusion on him think twice.some times inner feelings should not come out due to various reasons
2006-11-26 00:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by roaringlion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup and now if he is saying it then tht means tht he had realised his fault and wanna correct it
2006-11-26 03:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ldy the first step you got to take to solve your problem is "IMPROVE YOUR ENGLISH" so that we can understand your question. Do you understand hindi? to phir hindi main type karo. sharmane ki koi zaroorat nahi. atleast hum log samajh to payenge ki aap kya bolna chahti hain.
aap ka sawal se mujhe itna samajh aagaya hai ki aapke bf ne aap ko dhoka diya. woh kisi aur ladki ke saath bhi reletionship rakh ta hai. mujhe yeh samajh nahi aaya ki ab aage ki problem kya hai? aap ko shak hai ki woh kisis aur ladki ke saath hai ya phir aap ke paas saboot hai ki aisa hua hai. agar aap ke paas saboot hai to phir ab aap ke rishte ka koi matlab nahi hai. us ladke ko chod deejiye. aap ke sawal se lagta hai ki woh ladka aap ko emotional black mail kar raha hai ye keh kar ki usse zindagi main kabhi bhi sachchi dosti nahi mili. agli baar jab woh aap se yes kahe to aap ulta jawab deejiye ki yeh isliye hua kyonki usne kabhi doosron ki dosti ki kadar nahi ki. agar karta to koi use bhi sachchi dosti karta.
agar aap ko lagta hai ki main aap ka sawal nahi samagh payi hun to aap mujhe apni sahali samajh kar email bhi kar sakti hain. bas itna yaad rakhen ki yeh ladka aapke layak nahi hai. isse koi rishta rakhne ki zaroorat nahi hai. dosti ka bhi nahi.
2006-11-25 22:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋