SO i work with this girl. and i am always noticing her staring at me but when i catch her and jokingly say "what?" she laughs and turns away.this happens like 5 times a day, everyday. she took me to a bar for my 21st b-day.Ill admit i was a drunk but i remember everything. She held my hand whie we were walking to the parking lot(she was driving) I cant help but to want to as her if she has feelings for me as a friend or something more. How do you interpret these actions and would you be freaked out if someone asked you if you liked them?
2006-11-25 16:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the misspells. i was in a rush.
2006-11-25 16:50:38 · update #1
well just so you all know i asked her and i guess im just a friend. Thats all women ever want from me is to be just a friend.what about what i want why does that not matter?
2006-11-26 16:32:49 · update #2
Ask her about it. I did (with my b/f), now I'm with a good friend of mine. Most likely, she likes you. And I wouldn't be freaked. If she is your friend, I'm sure she will understand.
2006-11-25 16:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I love guys who get so caught up into thinking this way about girls. It's nice to have actual proof that guys also think about girls the way we do.
Anyhow, my answer to your question is, perhaps the girl does like you. Question is, do you like her too? If you're still uncertain right now, give it time and see if you like her back. But be careful not to send any wrong signals or else, she might interpret it in another way you really didn't intend to. Just act as normal as friends because that's really what you are, right? Well, at the moment. But if you do like her, the word is RECIPROCATE! Give her signs that you do like her back. Go out on dates more often, Surprise her with little things you know she likes. Things like that and you're on your way to romance =) As for asking a girl if she likes you, be careful not to put her on the spot. Pick the right time to ask, that is, after you both have been comfortable with each other already. And it's better if you do not expect what she'd answer; simply ask. That way you don't end up that hurt, if you know what I mean. Or you never know! She might say that precious line: "Yes, I do." And I'll betcha, you'll be glad you asked.
What I'm trying to say is, from a girl's perspective, guys are SUPPOSED to ask. You're the guy-- ask! That's how things should really go, no the other way around.
One more thing is, I think after quite some time, you'll know if someone's interested in you eventually-- good thing that you both work together! Hints like she's only seeing you and no one else more than you or you get closer as time goes by, that is, she's willing to spend time with you whether on dates, on the phone, work breaks.
Let me know what happens, goodluck to you!
2006-11-26 01:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by meredith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ask her if she likes you or not like a friend or something more...Don't worry at all trust me...Two things can hap pend that she yes to either answer. And about the interpretations don't never miss interpret the actions about the holding hands etc or looking at you and she laugh she maybe like you and is her way to hide her feelings. Everybody have different ways to hide or show their feelings...Good luck!!! Ask her...
2006-11-26 00:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you, if you really want to know ....ask her.
Do it some place outside of work, where you won't have to worry about interruptions and will be on more of a personal level. The worst she can say is no. It might be one of the best questions you ever asked. Good Luck!!
2006-11-26 01:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be kind of awkward for her, because if she does like you, she probably did not tell you for a reason. Do you like her that way? If so, ask her out, it will take pressure off her. If not, the remind her what a great FRIEND she is. Perhaps set her up on a date. She may be disappointed, but in the end will be grateful. That's my advice.
2006-11-26 01:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, she is in to you! She must really think you are special if nothing happened when you went out for your b-day especially since you were drinking! Talk to her quick before she thinks you only "want to be friends".
2006-11-26 00:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest & just ask her, I dont think she will freak out, if she says yes.. well great, if she says no, surely you 2 can still be friends/coworkers. Good Luck..:)
2006-11-26 00:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by smsinga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...this is a tricky one....she could be just flirting with you...and you work with ehr so i guess going upfront and asking her might make things weird if wat u're thinking is wrong....don't u have a mutual friend or something? mayb u shld try asking her indirectly u knw give her hints....if u like her y don't u make the first move? mayb she's doing all of this so that u can mak the first move.
2006-11-26 00:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be freaked out just shocked that you ain't catch none of the clues I gave out.
2006-11-26 00:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. the worst she could say would be no. and she obviusly doesnt hate you because she did take you out and everything.
2006-11-26 00:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋