I break with my bf bcoz my friend told me that he has relation with some other girl but when i ask my bf he dont agree. After that he ask me to have a simple friendship. I told him that we cant be in that way together now but if in life if we ever meet each other then we will just talk as simple friends we will have to forget the past 3 years that we had spent together while talking. He agreed but now he used to call me on every second day nd my one friend asked me that u were saying that u have breaked up but now y u talk to him. She say that its not fair either u clean up totally or dont break otherwise u r keeping him in dark. I said that i have breaked up but now he call me then what can i do. She is thinking that i am making fool of him. But what should i do? Should i ask my ex bf that am i keeping u in dark or shoud i do anything else.His exams r going on so i dont want to disturb his mind by saying him any thing. Pls Pls answer me sincerely nd soon.
2006-11-25 16:43:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please do not worry, Be cool first, then listen to me: if any one loves you he will come back to you, no need to go and ask apology to any one. Since you are just friends you are not keeping any body in dark because you have right over your life yaar! you dont need any body's permission for everything, dear. If he does not come please try to accept that he is not right for you. May be you have to learn something froem this relationship and may be you are actually going to get a man who can love you more Learn to go ahead, friend
2006-11-30 05:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by James_Bond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you broke up with your ex and if you said that you can;t be just friends, then it is not right on your part to encourage his calling you again and again. It gives a sense of hope to the guy. If you cannot handle easy phasing out of a relationship, just be abrupt and cut off all kinds of contact with your ex. And yes, in a way, you are toying with your ex's emotions. Please be straightforward with him and tell him that you cannot handle such a relation and you don't want to be contacted again. Since you say that he has his exams, you could wait till then and then tell him all this. And later, do not try to encourage him again even if he does try to talk to you. In the meantime, try to learn to handle relations and not avoid confrontation.
2006-11-25 17:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..there is a really simple solution to your complicated problem.....the friend who told you that ur bf was having another relation.....can you trust her completely......secondly she tells you to either leave him completely and stop fooling him.......where are you fooling him???it is his decision to call you and speak to you.......i think you should check if your friend is interested in him.........secondly why can't you and your bf be just good friends breaking up with someone does not always mean you have to let them out of your life completely.........you can still be great friends and see other people at the same time.......u need to clarify to urself first are u still in love with him..if the answer is yes then check for yourself if what your friend said is true and did he actually have another girlfriend.......if no then clarify your situation with your guy and get back together..........but if you are not interested in him.....then just be great friends......we do call our best friends everyday don't we????so decide for yourself.........
2006-11-30 21:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its not him having another gf but its you to take a step to break-up. May be he is not prepared to break the relation so he is calling you up. It will take little more time... Its better you continue to talk to him just as friend at least till his exams get over.
2006-11-29 19:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by simran s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an excuse? Just drop the class! If you attend a college/university and you pay for those classes out of pocket or financial aid.. then by all means just drop it. If you must explain why you have to drop the class, then say you don't like the fact that your prof. smokes and it makes you uncomfortable and hinders your ability to learn.
2016-05-23 03:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi buddy ,better u say him not to call u .now also Ur thinking about him by saying that he is having exams and u don't want to distUrb him.just think did he also have the same concern towards u,then y do u still think of him.leave it buddy past is past,just concentrate n Ur studies ,career and about Ur parents.u should have command on ur self.say him not to give any calls to u.hope u will be stubborn.bye buddy.
2006-11-30 05:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by mane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be friends when you've had so much more of a relationship. I would make a clean break. If your relationship was meant to be then it will happen. But for now u should set him free.
2006-12-02 07:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dear i am really feeling bad for you it shows from your writing that your are disturbed.
Ok whatever it is tell him the truth do not keep him in dark by attending to him frequently your are giving him a sense of hope.See i think tell him the truth do not be harsh while telling him.But let hes exams get over till than have patience and its not right for anyone to keep in dark so....Best of luck.
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2006-11-25 21:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey break up doesn't actually mean cutting all connections with him. And explain to your friend that u r not playing with him, that u 2 are just friends now nothing else.probably she will believe u... 'coz she is ur friend.... right.
2006-12-02 02:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by maiclim girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sangeeta it is really very good really u r attitude is very nice . that u don't want to disturb your Friend during his exam. dear take it casual dint think about it more . let his exam finished and try to finish this matter. there are plenty of things for worry in this world. good luck.(
2006-11-25 19:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by deepak s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋