Ok my ex and I were trying to fix things between us before we got back together and yeah I messed up big time today cuz I did stuff with her best friend. Now she wants nothing to do with me and I dont blem her right now. I hate myself for doing it but lately she was pushing me away being cold and distant.. I want her back I love her so much but I dont know what to do to win her back. What should I do?
2006-11-25 16:43:22 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she wont talk to me and she pretty much had this to say to me in a email. "don't ever ever evre email again i am done i am not coming back tonight tomorrow this week ever we are over done never going to happen again GO ***** (bffs name)"
2006-11-25 16:47:30 · update #1
She probably won't want you back... so move on.
2006-11-25 16:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try being honest with her and not "messing up" again. Expect that it will take time. Expect that you won't necessarily get to "do stuff" with her until you've regained her trust. Don't use any of that as an excuse to "do stuff" with any other woman.
Telling her you love her is easy. Telling strangers you love her is easy. Actually being a man and being responsible and trustworthy -- that's hard. Blaming your mistakes on her on her; that's childish.
Even if you try, it doesn't mean she's going to take you back. I'm sure she was you "ex" for a reason. Based on your behavior, it sounds like she's better off if you stay the ex.
2006-11-25 16:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by question_ahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a sneaking suspicion that your "doing stuff" is the reason why she is your ex. if your idea of handling conflict is by "doing stuff" then im afraid any future relationships you might have will also all end up as a series of ex's. forget about getting back with her, she's done. sounds like you mighta had a chance, but blew it prob for good this time. (with her best friend no less! can you imagine how hurt she must be right now?) move on and quit "doing stuff" everytime things dont go your way, the only stuff you should be doing is keeping it in your pants.
2006-11-25 17:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by mickey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but i would say talk to her. tell her what in your heart. only if you really love her tell her. if you feel bad then i would tell her you are sorry and move on. but if she can put it behind her then don't cheat on her or mess around with any girl. because what you did to her with her best friend is a big no no. i mean a big one. what the hell is her problem. her best friend. doesn't she care how she felt. anyway but there is a fifty fifty chance she wont take you back. i know you feel bad but if she doesn't want you back you need to understand that. next time you get with someone used your head not the another head OK. i am not try to be mean OK just used common sense. OK i hope my advise help you out. good luck dude
2006-11-25 16:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probly wont want anything to do with you for awhile. you can either wait it out and just see if she ever starts talking to you again. or you can maby write her a letter saying how much she means to you and how sorry you are. shes never gonna forget about what you did. but you may still have a chance to make things right with her again. if she loves you too then she may come back. but if you have done other things in the past it may take awhile or not at all.
2006-11-25 16:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That became truly dumb. i'm sensible she felt that you've been laying the floor artwork for a courting such as her and then you bypass out such as her perfect pal. That became so dumb. tell her you're sorry and that you pick to communicate such as her about the topic. If her says no, saved attempting. She does have some thoughts for you or she does no longer be so mad. you've fairly some artwork to do and fairly some floor to make up. Be honest such as her.
2016-11-29 19:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by klosterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really are sorry and you really think you can behave yourself try to tell her how you feel then follow it up with a poem it always worked for me guys may laugh but women like it here is one that i wrote on the house:
love is forgiving ,
love is forgetting,
love is simply the reason for living
love can exist in a smile or a sigh,
love is simple you and I.
written for my wife 1994
2006-11-25 16:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up all hope of getting back with her and move on. give up on her friend too. start talking to a different crowd of ladies. by the time you get in good with a new woman, you ex will have heard about how you're moving on (trust me, it will happen somehow) and then SHE will want YOU back. get a little bit of nookie and then tell her to shove off...or use other words...then go out with her best friend like you originally did. rinse. repeat.
2006-11-25 16:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Michael JB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her what you just typed. Be sincere. If it doesn't work then maybe it's time to move on. Unfortunately what you did was pretty bad, and maybe you should just start fresh, and not that mistake ever again. Sorry though....) :
2006-11-25 16:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tori H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....DANG MAN>> UR A BAD MAN>> the only thing that can help you now is time well maybe.. really u messed up..and there nothing u can do about it.. u should think of the consequences before u do stuff okay.. just remember to learn from your previews mistake and THINK FIRST BEFORE U Do STUFF
2006-11-25 16:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by mike s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur done.! go lick ur wounds and move on.. if it was meant to be u wouldnt have messed around with her best friend anyways.... MOVE ON.. chances are she wont forgive u anyways
2006-11-25 16:46:23 · answer #11 · answered by Dink 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋