2006-11-25 16:38:22 · 16 answers · asked by Aire D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would congratulate her and find her a really cool gift. It's what someone that loves does. Don't judge, just be. love, Jack
2006-11-25 16:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very happy for her. My mother remarried when I was a teenager. I only wanted the best for her. She found a good guy, but it didn't last too long. But, again, she was happy for awhile. She's doing what she thinks is right. Give her a break. She deserves it
2006-11-26 00:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom got remarried to someone I hated. (really hope he doesn't see this.) Anyways, I think it was soph. year of high school. I got over it and went to her wedding because I knew in the end that I just wanted her to be happy, in a few years I would be out of the house and it wouldn't matter anyways. I think you should be there for your mom, be happy for her even if you're not happy about the situation its self. Any questions just ask :)
2006-11-26 01:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by tigersnw86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That very much depends on how I feel about the person she is marrying. If I think he isn't good for her or is not a good person then I am going to speak with her in private. Ultimately I must respect her decision as she is an adult and able to make her own decisions. If think he is a good person and someone who can make her happy then I will be completely happy for her and do all I can to help.
The relationship you have with your mother should be continued regardless of how you feel about her fiance. It's hard to do but will mean the world to your mother. If you really don't like him you need to express your concern and continue the relationship with your mother, doesn't mean you have to have any contact with him.
2006-11-26 00:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my father got engage after my mother had passed away I first reacted by being very angry. He was making this huge decision that was going ultimately change my life. Eventually I realized that my dad has the right to live his life and do what he wants. I was lucky that he included me as much as he could, I got to be good friends with his fiance, and eventually was happy to have her as part of my family.
2006-11-26 02:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by molren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there-done that! It really sucked for me personally-but I knew she really loved my soon to be step father-and if she finally found happiness then I was not about to stand in her way!! Life can be so very unfair-but just look at all situations with a positive and it can roll by pretty easy!God bless!
2006-11-29 17:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if the guy was nice or not, at first i think i would hate that my mum was marrying another man but evenually i would get over it and be happy for her.
2006-11-26 00:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as my mum is happy with da man dat she wants to marry and as long as they luv each other, then I wud be very happy 4 da both of them. As long as he knows how to take care,love her and as long as he treats her right,etc. I would accept her decision. The most important thing to me, is the happiness of the ppl that i care and luv.
2006-11-26 00:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by cheekygal_143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be very very happy for her if that makes her happy. There is nothing better than seeing the people you love happy.
2006-11-26 00:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by fun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would hug her and congratulate her. Everyone deserves happiness and she has obviously found that. if you have any ill feelings towards this man then you need to deal with them without hurting your mum or her husband to be.
2006-11-26 05:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋