Here's my problem, I am embarrassed I have to resort to asking this question on Yahoo! but I am pretty stumped. I have met this amazing guy, we have been together for three years now. We own a house, we are doing wonderful for our age. Lately I feel stuck... I'm 21 and I may as well be married, when I should be off "being 21." He, on the other hand, finds people our age immature and holds no interest in going out with friends. I never want to be around him anymore, I've grown bored and yearn for a more exciting life. I have contemplating leaving him... Then I wonder, what if I never find anybody like this again? I know he'd never take me back after sticking him with a house a couple brand new cars to go off and live a new life... He's determined to be successful, and is happy with the way things are... There is no changing his mind, we have talked about this, 12 hours straight in fact one night. I love him so much, but I am so sick of our life! I'm stuck here, advice??
2006-11-25
16:37:44
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melsaruly
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I must add this, he knows how I feel and he doesn't budge in his ways. I on the other hand, have been on my own (literally) since I was 16 years old... I have never experienced "partying." I am not necessarily interested in this, I'd love simple things... Right about now, ANYTHING. Any contact with other people, I am in need of something other than him 24/7. Like I said, absolutely no budge on his part. Believe me, I've been trying for 3 years...
2006-11-25
16:49:20 ·
update #1
I am not in school, I am very successful in Real-Estate sales. School is not an interest... As for just me going out... Being the driven person her is, I never hear the end of it when I attempt to. I'm wasting time according to him, and he becomes angry with me every time without fail.
2006-11-25
16:53:08 ·
update #2
I'm adding so much here, I apologize! I have to fill in some blanks once more. Aside from this one problem, he is amazing, he always has been. The type of guy a woman dreams of having and we are happy a lot of the time. I know I need space and to have a life outside of ours, or to extend ours. He has no interest, he'd rather be working and making money. Everything with him is about becoming successful, he says he'll relax and enjoy like in 15-20 when, by then, he can coast... There is NO changing his mind whatsoever. This is very frustrating, I want to leave, and I want to stay at the same time.
2006-11-25
16:58:39 ·
update #3