does it make you feel bad or good that you feel you hurt them?
2006-11-25 16:36:52 · 6 answers · asked by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Absolutely. This is a hard forum to get to know people well.
2006-11-25 16:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad SLAMMING anyone....if you mean on this forum, the interpretation of the word SLAMMING is usually defined by the individual who disagrees with you, though. But if I knew I was really out of line, I would apologize.
2006-11-26 00:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When that happens, I feel awful. I feel bad even if I just think bad thoughts about a person before I get to know them, just to find out that they are a nice person.
2006-11-26 00:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by westsida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I feel terrible when that happens.. Most of the time, if it's something contraversial..I try to say something at the end like, "Maybe I'm wrong, but it's just what I see from my perspective" or something, so if it offends someone or something, they hopefully will understand that I know I'm not perfect, and am bound to be wrong on some things, and might be incorrect on that.
2006-11-26 00:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by pleiades423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm choosey about who I "slam"--usually they are good people but our viewpoints put us at cross purposes and the situation will never be remedied--I find myself more torn by the fact that they are good people and saying hurtful things than by my own decision to chastise them
2006-11-26 00:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that the logical solution for this dilemma is to avoid slamming people.
2006-11-26 00:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋