okay okay.. im only 17 and when i like a girl its like fully.. its like i take it seriously. people sometimes tell me to like have fun enjoy teenage life and not to love until when i get older.. but somehow i do enjoy my teenage life.. but i take relationship seriously.. i do have fun during my relationship then next thing you know fall inlove with this girl.and yea..kinda wierd how a teenager loves like an adult..NOw this girl that i love broke up with me twice like every 2 weeks people say have fun and enjoy her. and i do but i take it really seriously.. now this girl that broke my heart and now she wants to go back with me for the second time..im just afraid that if i do i would just get my heart broken again.. should i go for it..?? and is me normal for most of the teenager??
2006-11-25 16:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea its normal to feel this way..you just have to be careful not to get hurt..and its really hard...as far as taking her back..its a judgement call....do you think she'll do this again? do u still love her? think about and dont rush to a decision
2006-11-25 16:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by mttcool82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you guys break up the first time? I think that the reason there should determine if you guys should go out a second time.
I'm seventeen myself, and a girl, and I know that everyone tells you that you're supposed to just hang out and enjoy the teenage years..but life is short and maybe it isn't so bad that you love with your whole heart. Obviously by doing that you will get hurt, but as long as it is a healthy relationship and you don't forget the important things then I'd say live to the fullest, laugh often, and love with as much heart as you can.
Chances are that this relationship won't progress very far just because of its teenage nature. Be serious in making this decision and most importantly: BE TRUE TO YOURSELF! Don't just go out with her because you love her. Know that she is going to want you back and that she is being just as true to herself and you are to yourself. Honesty must flow through this relationship..don't be naive..YOU know when something isn't working. By doing this you can sort a lot of things out.
I hope I helped. :)
2006-11-25 16:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by stargazengrle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's quite normal to get your heart broken a few times. But she is not even worth talking about, she dumped you twice, so let her be. In the mean time enjoy life, when you meet the right girl you will know. I got married when I was 18 and I knew that the guy I met when I was 16, was the one.
Don't go back with her, you're asking for heartache.
2006-11-25 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back with her, she broke up with you for a reason and you have not changed, save yoruself from getting hurt again.
Plus a 17 year old who takes his relationships seriously is a good thing, if she screws you over she may mess you up for the rest of your life, meaning your a nice good guy now, if she messes this up your done youll be an *** to girls the rest of your life.
Its alwasy a girls fault a guys a dick in the end, somewhere down the road its a girls fault.
Some girl made fun of my husbands hair in 8th grade, it still bothers him today to the point he never leaves the house unles hes perfect, and hes mean to ALL GIRLS!!!
2006-11-25 16:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by renee h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie i think the country could do with a few more teenagers that think like you and definatly dont think that you are not normal.Im sure your mum would rather have you as you are than coming home steaming drunk in the middle of the night.Have you explained to your mum why you dont like hanging round with your friends?Maybe you could find a few friends who are like you and hang out together like going to the cinemas,ice skating or bowling or even just girlie shopping. I have upmost respect for teenagers like you and hope that there are more of you about in the future.All the best love xx
2016-03-29 09:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty obvious that you're looking for a serious relationship and she isnt. I would just try to stay friends with her. Dont set yourself up for another heart break. And its normal =D
2006-11-25 16:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel
i have gone through the same thing and
what i did was not go back with the person
basically you would end up hurting yourself again and
i suggest you to move on
and enjoy life...
2006-11-25 16:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by sncdiaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your whipped.
she is going to walk all over you.
find someone else.
2006-11-25 16:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always worth the nookie
2006-11-25 16:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by minip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (lol) find someone who is on the same level as u.
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2006-11-25 16:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by ^*~b0w Now & do @s ! $ay~*^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋