i like my best friend so i asked her out but she said no. We are still best friends and since she knows that i like her she trusts me and tells me everything(including some things i don't want to know). Even though i know i've got a sweet deal and she says that we can go out when we get a little older i dont want to wait. What should i do???
2006-11-25 16:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should definitely wait. If you pressure her, you'll lose her. Be patient and when you get older, try again.
2006-11-25 16:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may get a hundred answers on this one & I'm willing to bet they will mostly say be happy you have a friend. What I'm going to say is something you won't want to hear: It is probably already too late. You are lusting & she is in friendship with you. Enlist her aid in finding someone you can enjoy at another level but keeping her as a friend may no longer be an option. To her it will be, but not to you & if you ask her again it will no longer be an option to her either. Either never mention it again or let the friendship go.
Well I told you you wouldn't like what I had to say, but I promise you it's the truth. Don't screw up a friendship.
2006-11-25 16:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by takeitez2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step one, wait until later.
She won't follow up on her words, for you are now stuck in the 'friend zone'. It's a little range of friendship and companionship that you're stuck in. You know too much to risk a bad relationship over, ergo the relationship will never happen.
Sorry man, that's how it is.
2006-11-25 16:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little waiting can get you a lot of "special time" later. If she wants to waite to long, like 2 years or something crazy like that find someone else.
2006-11-25 16:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Do not let your friendship get overpowered by something that may not be the best idea! Friends are way more important then ANY relasionship! Don't let this take you down.
best wishesâ¥
2006-11-25 16:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are complicated. if you really like her, wait for her. she probably is unsure about the whole dating thing. if you don't want to wait, go try and get another girl.
2006-11-25 16:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Holly♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes. If you push her now, you might not have a chance in the future.
2006-11-25 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh;
Sometimes girls don't like guys
that they have known for a long time.
maybe your just not her type.
2006-11-25 16:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell her how you feel! lol tell her you dont want to wait!
2006-11-25 16:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋