People all around me just move from one relationship to another and I am ALWAYS by myself. The men I meet I just do NOT connect with. Anyone else feel this way? Do people just randomly date anyone -- even if the 'spark' isn't there? Help -- I'm tired of being the lonely single gal... ;-)
2006-11-25 16:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can never find that spark if you don't try. your friends sound like they get bored real quick. you continue to be selective on what you want. you'll find the right one, you just have to keep looking. it is just like buying meat (lol), you don't settle for the first piece you come to. you look at the others before you decide. good luck.
2006-11-25 16:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me I am totally there. probably because guys are immature until their early thirties and pretty much beyond that as well. Have fun with all different guys and meet lots of people who interest you or you have fun with. Don't look so hard for Mr. Right, and that's how you'll find him. Don't date guys who your not interested in, that's not fair to them. Alot of your guy friends will be able to tell you that it hurts to crush on a girl and have her give you a "pity" or "bored" date. Totally unfair to the men.
FYI All the chics that are hooked up are jealous of the "lonely single gal" because you have the freedom to be with whoever you fancy. LOL
2006-11-25 16:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey berry i know what you are feeling and going though i been single for 4 years know and it is so hard to find the right person to connect with but i keep praying and i never give up because i know i well find that person in my life one day because I'm a very nice guy and a great cook and i have a good sence of humor and i have a great life.so dont give up and if you want you can e- mail me any time because im also tired of been lonely just like you blue_angle77@yahoo.com
2006-11-25 16:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're looking for love and maybe that should take a while. Maybe you have to meet a lot of guys before you find one that you can really love. That's fine. It would be nice to have a friend or two in the meantime, though, right?
But dating seems so sexually oriented. Hmmmm.
That's for YOU to think about. Not MY place.
If there are guys you like, flirt with them. If they seem interested for a few days, talk to them and tell them why you want to get to know them. Be yourself. A guy who sticks around after you've told him the truth about yourself might just be a lovable dude. You should know what to do from there.
2006-11-25 16:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't found the one yet. Trust me, he is out there, until then you just have to keep being the single girl. I was that girl forever, lol, and that can be fun. I mean I love my boyfriend, we live together now, but it was fun being single sometimes too. Live it up, be happy being single and that will help you find the right one, because if you are truly happy it will show. Good luck!!
2006-11-25 16:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say anything like this as i havent spent time with you personally but i think those who have meet they just dont want some serious relationship as you have said they just want to date randomly.
2006-11-25 16:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem and it was cos i was too picky. i just wanted a girl like me, like a girl version of me. but she doesnt exist cos everyones different. i just gave up and swooped down to everyones level and now i go out with whoever cos at the end of the day its cool to have sex and chill out with different girls and your only young once, so hit it baby. and anyway, people keep sooo much sh*t on the d low that surprisingly often, u find u have more in common with other people than u initially think, straight up
2006-11-25 16:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got that right, people are hopping from bed to bed like rabits. Four out of ten children are born to unwed mothers now days. Stop being loney and enjoy being alone, your time will come.
2006-11-25 16:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By dating people, get to know yourself...your likes and dislikes, and you have fun in the process...dont look at dating as only dating the perfect guy...you will never find him.
2006-11-25 16:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by chris f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just stop rushen your self bcuz you'll find the guy. I know how you feel and just try 2 talk 2 you friends friend so you can get 2 know them and go out with them.
2006-11-25 16:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋