talked to this guy last year all the time and we flirted and everyone said that he liked me. gave him my number and he never called me over the summer. we came back to school and he almost never talks to me anymore and when he does it is like an after thought like o yea she is still here and i am bored so i'll go talk to her. but then he will go out of his way just to do something cute so i will notice him and get this cute little look sometimes when he looks at me like he wants about to say something important but can't. i don't know what to think so i am about to end the small friendship we now have because i am tired of trying to figure him out. what he is doing and should i just try to forget him?
2006-11-25 16:05:55 · 9 answers · asked by lalalalalalalalala23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls u are great and i appreciate ur answers but i would like some guys to answer too cuz u know better than girls what is going through his mind
2006-11-25 16:11:17 · update #1
also i was told he might not be allowed to date but that is still no reason is it?
2006-11-25 16:13:02 · update #2
anytime i try to ask him what is going on and why he acts like this he mumble things like " i have always liked (i don't know if as friend or more) you" and "we always talk" and then get quiet
2006-11-25 16:15:50 · update #3
he sounds confused or is searching for attention. don't waste your time. he knows you will always be around if he needs you but you can't rely on him to be consistent - drop him for a guy who craves your attention.
2006-11-25 16:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by cami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is waiting for you to make a move, he might be thinking that you are too much of an effort or high maitenance.
So if you really like this guy back then you need to give him some signals, because lets face it guys arent all that switched onto subtle looks and flirting..
Try going up to him and talking instead of you waiting for him to come over, just start with small talk like "what did you do no the weekend" and see how he responds, if he keeps on ignoring you then Id probably just move on, if not then go for it!
Good Luck :)
2006-11-26 00:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by adnie25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should just forget him and let him come/ chase after u since u obviously seem too mature for him.u can find someone much better who's going to give u the attention u need.or just confront him and find out what's the problem.
!~*($mo0c#es):*~!
2006-11-26 00:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by ^*~b0w Now & do @s ! $ay~*^ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he isn't even really interested in you. Someone who doesn't even say hi to you when you walk by is really....just a stranger. He is probably thinking.......not sure. There is no way to know what he is thinking!! But you can go talk with him, strike up some normal conversation then you will know how he thinks.
2006-11-26 00:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he's playing hard to get or perhaps he is undecided too. Give him up. At your age you shouldn't have difficulties getting to know other guys. Channel your time and energies to others.
2006-11-26 00:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just stay friends for now. he may have something going on in his life and probaby doesn't want a girlfriend to complicate things.
2006-11-26 00:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont forget about him he proably like you and just doesnt know how to deal with it. Just ask him straight up.
2006-11-26 00:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is playing hard to get,or wants you to make the first move
2006-11-26 00:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by hancevh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i mean dont forget him... be friends that just say hi everytime they pass by each other or something... =]
2006-11-26 00:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋