She is so perfect for me, she loves to be around me, but she already has a guy and she wont let our friend ship turn into a realtionship, what should i do. REAL ANSWERES
2006-11-25 15:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should respect her decision.
2006-11-25 15:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could read Macbeth for inspiration, but that will surely lead to trouble. Seriously, do nothing. If she left her boyfriend for you, what makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you a few months from now? Find someone else or wait until her relationship is ended, but it sounds like she's drawn an appropriate boundary which you should respect.
2006-11-26 00:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a tough spot. If you somehow convince her to break up with her boyfriend for you and it doesn't work out, she will resent you for making her destroy a perfectly good relationship.
If you dont get her to break up with the guy, you'll sit around suffering, going nuts over her.
Then again, if you sit around and wait for them to break up, when they do, she'll confide in you. But, she could just see you as a friend and wind up in a relationship with yet another guy, which will drive you even more crazy.
Question is, are you willing to wait forever, or are you willing to go the selfish route and push for them to break up?
2006-11-25 23:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by atroposwhispered 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK we get the drift that you really like her but she is in a relationship already. my advice is that be happy for her because you would not want to lose her as a friend. let her know that she can rely on you always but not to the point where you will become her doormat. good luck
2006-11-25 23:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by smilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this stage, friends stay longer then boyfriends. Maybe, that's her reason. You are being good friends with her and that is a fantastic place to be. All good relationship starts with a strong friendship. Don't rush.
2006-11-25 23:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt much you can do. if she doesnt want to be more then friends you have to just keep being friends and some day she may turn around and realise that you are btter then this other guys that she is already with
2006-11-25 23:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends with her and if it is supposed to happen, then eventually it will happen. Straight from my boyfriends mouth. He's been there with me and now we're together. It sucks but you have to think about what's right for her and what she wants. The question is do you want her to be happy?
2006-11-25 23:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by toxic_raptor8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice from you is that you detach yourself from those feelings (budda says remove all attachment in life to obtain enlightnement). but more specifically it will help you get over her, and open your eyes toward other options on the horizon. she is in love with someone already, and you have to respect that this is her choice. if some time down the line if things dont work out, your welcome to try. moreover, dont make yourself seem too desperate, this will make look too easy to get, and this will ruin your chances with her permanently.
2006-11-25 23:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by starworks5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want someone to step on your toes in a relationship? It's all about respect, she is already with someone just wait and see what happens.
2006-11-25 23:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats tough too. i think that you should just lay back and wait for things to play out, maybe the guy she is with isn't right for her adn u will end up with her, but for now just try to have a friendship with her.
2006-11-25 23:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um this is a tough one she don't want to be in a serious relationship with you um honestly you can keep trying but you might not have a chance you know but who's to say so good luck
2006-11-25 23:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋