Okay i am goign to try to make a long story short. . . . .I got ina fight wiht the love of my life the other night . . . .i am away on vacation in florida and i havent been able to see him for 10 days. . . . And he sent me this really nasty email and his parents found it and he got into a lot of trouble. . .he cant use that phone or computer. . . . that is only a lil' of his punishment but anyways. . . in stuck in florida and i cant talk to him or see him. . .and i cant stop tinking about him. . . basically every night i have cried myself to sleep because i think that i lost him because i cant talk to him about what happened and i know that he is mad at me. . . . So i cant talk to him or even see him for like 4 more dayz and I love him so much but i think that i migh thave lost him because of some stupid fight and i dont know what to do. . .he is the love of my life and he is mad at me! what do i do?!?
2006-11-25 15:28:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. i am roberts daughter lol. . .im not gay!
2006-11-25 15:29:26 · update #1
First off if the two of you are really in love then this fight will not last for too long. This is a challenge for you two. Testing your love, if the fight was stupid but he is willing to give up what you guys have over it then it is not worth it. You wouldnt have made it far with him anyway, but if he does love you, he will be mad for a while, then come to his senses and then you two can talk and work thins out. But plan for the worst, build your heart up for a breakdown be ready for whatever is to come.
2006-11-25 15:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by cosmetologistbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! Do not scare me like that. I think i know you . . . maybe not. Anyway, if you think you lost him then when you get back tell him that you love him, and that you dont want to fight. I might have never had a boy/friend, but i have had so many friends that have had this kind of prob. So, i dont know personally, but i do know that i asked out a guy, and he said no. The thing is he didnt say it to my face. I still like him so much, but he said no, and i am going to deal with it. You should just tell this boy strait up that you love him, and that you are so sorry. Tell him that you dont want to fight. That should work. K? i hope it works out with you, even though it hasnt worked for me . . .
2006-11-25 23:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not YOUR fault that you can't talk to him. It's his parents that banned him from the phone and the computer.
So I say, just stick it out the next 4 days until you can see him.
That gives you 4 days to "rehearse" what you're going to say to bridge the gap and put things back together with him.
Regardless of how mad he is at you, he'll still feel a bit relieved to see you after you've been gone for so long. Use it to your advantage.
2006-11-25 23:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ya'll really truly love each other ya'll can work it out. Just when you come back explain it, make amends, have make-up sex, it will all be good!
That's if it's a mutual love, if by chance he isn't as much in love with you as you are him it might be different, and probably prove whether your love is worth it or not.
BUT....if be it ya'll are civilized adults (i'm hoping.). Then just talk about it, make amends, and refer to the second sentence.
2006-11-25 23:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was wondering about that one..lol..just dont worry, he probably cant get in contact with you cus he is grounded..but after his punishment is over, call him..have you tried calling him? or if you guys go to school together then just wait til you see him in school and talk it out..but dont be worried couples fight all the time..
2006-11-25 23:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes distance makes the heart grow fonder. If it's true love, it will still be there when you get back. Enjoy your vacation, what's left of it.
2006-11-25 23:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you are sad but don't worry. Wait the four days and talk then.
2006-11-25 23:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by confused soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was the love of your life, you wouldn't have lost him. He's not. He's the love of your previous few months.
2006-11-25 23:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋