2006-11-25 15:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by thunderpants91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really can't give up if you want to be in love - and let's face it, we all want to be in and give and receive love.
What's got you down? (a girl obviously) but what specifically?
It's not easy to lose love, but there are so many other opportunities out there. Mental health counselors say that ending a relationship is similar to losing a loved one to death. There should be a brief, intense period of mourning and then you can begin to move on. So grieve the situation and then focus on things that make you happy. Once you're feeling better, you'll be open to love again.
2006-11-25 15:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think positive, not negative. This is love. Someone is always there for someone else. Try to be friends with some girls and learn trust. Don't be friends with their outside, by the way, you won't get anywhere then. If there is a girl you have weird feelings for, that you've never felt before, but ti is like you want to be with that person more, you're in love. You made it wanting to be with that person. However, remember this. DON'T GIVE UP!!! Hope this advice helps.
2006-11-25 23:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. A lot of us have felt very hurt about previous relationships and felt like giving up on the romance department. But fate has a way of dealing things differently and when the time is right you will once again not only feel loved but be very capable and willing to express love again also.
2006-11-25 23:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up, I do believe that there is someone for everyone. But not if you cant find them. If you sit around feeling sorry for yourself. You will never find love or be in love.
2006-11-25 23:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts...trust me i know...but u have to tell urself that u have to go through the pain to find some1 u love and will always be happy with....just look forward to that and don't push urself into relationships if u don't like how things r going
2006-11-25 23:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going through the same probelm. I thought that i was ugly and didn't have the qualities to have guys attracted to me. but i wanted to feel the experience of love soo bad. i became despertate. i let my standards go really low. and then i thought last year that i was in love and that lead me to be heartbroken. so i had given up on love thinking i would always be single and ended up dieing lonely and with over sixty cats. this year it all changed i attracted a lot of guys. i knew i would find someone out there that i would truly fall in love with. but for now i would hang back and just take it easy and slow. i found out instead of falling in love and possibly be heartbroken is just to wait and let it play out. yeah in my pass time i flirt and sometimes go out with guys. but you don't let your self get so connected unless you know for sure that it is the right person. so don't give up there is someone out there for you. and i know you want to be in love right now but unless you're absolutly sure that's the right person then don't go for it. don't become desperate, but don't give up on love it's out there. your fairytale will come just be patient. hangout with your friends and get a group of friends of the opposite sex and hangout with them. and one day you'll see the right person for you under your nose and realize that there is such thing of love. don't give up on love. even though you want to be in love so bad and find that "one special person" don't let yourself become desperate. just hang back and wait. but in the mean time flirt, date, hangout, become romantic. don't sit and wait for the right person and don't let your standards become low. experience dating but take it seriously and carefully. that's all i can say.
2006-11-25 23:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be happy with YOURSELF before you can make anyone else happy...never give up
better to have loved and lost than never to have loved....
whatever has happened to you should make you stronger!
2006-11-25 23:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and let love come to you
2006-11-25 23:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by smilee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can't. you just gave up.
2006-11-25 23:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever you!!!! think is right.
2006-11-25 23:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Grand Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋