My boyfriend looks at porn on the internet every couple of days and it really bothers me. Is this normal to look at porn that often? Do I have a right to be so jealous? I haven't said anything to him about it and I don't know if I should. He is only 20, so I'm thinking his age might have something to do with it. I was hoping that over time it would get better, but we've been together now for over a year and it hasn't slowed down at all. Is this normal? Do I have anything to worry about?
2006-11-25 15:20:33 · 9 answers · asked by Kate D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely NOTHING to worry about, he is a sexual person who obviously enjoys it. Dont be upset or feel jealous, why dont you watch some with him? It can be alot of fun, and you can learn alot of sexual things from porn.
But if it gets to the point where he would rather watch porn than be with you, you need to say something to him
2006-11-25 15:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-26 00:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You have much to worry about!! This guy has a real problem with relationships with women. As you should already have discovered. It will not get better but it will get worse. Don't get jealous....just get yourself out of this relationship and into one with someone who likes women and knows how to relate with them. This guy is not a winner and neither will you be if you stick around.
2006-11-25 15:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His age has nothing to do with his porn addiction, but his total lack of commitment to your relationship does. Tell him no more porn or no more you in his life. Then follow through.
2006-11-25 15:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! Excellent Question.. How is your sex life? Maybe he has fantasies that excedes what goes on in your bed room. Suprise him and go buy some lingerie, somthing really nice. And don't be shy about it. Be kinky! and maybe he wouldn't have a reason to watch it. I hope I answered it.
2006-11-25 15:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by hagred90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn addiction can put a huge damper on a relationship. Please seak the help of a licensed therapist or couples councelor. If your bo is not willing to do that, or see his problem, i suggest you end the realtionship.
2006-11-25 15:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Beamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really bother me. You have every right to be upset. I agree....tell him no porn or you're through.
2006-11-25 15:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. If it doesn't affect him in the slightest then I would dump him. Why does he have to look at other women when he has such a good relationship with you.
2006-11-25 15:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry unless you are missing out as a consequence
if you are, get active wear him out and he wont bother watching "fiction"
2006-11-25 15:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋