k so the guy that im in LOVE with.....supposedly gets high every night....my best friend keeps warning me and telling me stuff that she knows about him to keep me out of trouble.....but idk. im not for sure if he actually does drugs or not and i dont want to flat out ask him, DO YOU DO DRUGS!?!?!? idk if i should just dump him and get on with my life to prevent myself from getting involved with drugs and stuff or if i should stick with him cause right now hes one of the only things that actually makes me happy...i love him so much but idk if i want to risk anything with him..if you have any advice that would be wonderful..thanks.....xoxox
2006-11-25 15:20:03 · 10 answers · asked by XoXo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i know this might suck to hear, but he prob is on drugs...now im not saying that he gets high everynight...but theres a good chance he at least does it sometimes. guys like that sometimes arent worth your time...but if you really love him, give it a chance. just don't let him peer pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do.
hope it works out, jamie
2006-11-25 15:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by JAMIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before listening to any of the naive answers you have gotten here, maybe you should qualify the term "drugs" is he smoking a joint to loosen up after work or is he pumping himself full of heroin? There is a huge difference. I do "drugs" every day and have for over 30 years but it doesn't make me a bad person. Held the same job for 21 years, same marriage for 27 years. But my "drug" is just weed.
2006-11-25 23:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i know how you feel my bf is on weed .. you don't say how old you are so this make is kinda hard to advise you.. if you find out that he is and decide to stay with him just don't do it your self if he loves you he want wont to change you .. but if you can not accept this behavior you need to find out for your self so you can decide if you want to continue in this relationship or not .. and yes weed is so very addicting for long term users. it is possible to be with someone on drugs and you not do it.. but i must warn you they are number 1 in there life and you come second not to mention if you have kids with them and most drug users do not have much in the way of material things of course there are exceptions to every rule
2006-11-25 23:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ever appears to be on drugs, or to be getting over then from the night before, then you have a right to question him.
Be aware that it can seem similar to a hang-over.
In the mean time, take your friends warning on board and use protection if you are in a ''close'' relationship.
I feel that if you use protection and act adult, you both will be ok.
Drugs, like drink, can be simply a stage.
However, if he injects then run...... fast!!
2006-11-25 23:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from the title I can tell you to dump him cause hes gonna be killed one way or the other ... With or without you
2006-11-25 23:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Crap head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know where he is supposedly getting high every night, could you show up there unexpectedly and see for yourself what's going on?
2006-11-25 23:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you people are such stuck up assknobs.
So he gets high every night??? Big deal!!! Do you know how many guys smoke weed on a weekly basis? Everyone does it so just deal with it. Not dating a guy who smokes weed is just plain silly. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH SMOKING POT!!!!!
2006-11-25 23:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if hes doing drugs. if he cares about u he wont get mad and should answer ur question. if he gets upset its probably true and if he does see if theres a way to help him quit if u really love him.
2006-11-25 23:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Carolyn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, if he is doing drugs he obviously doesn't love you.
If he really loves you talk to him and he will want help, because drugs is not healthy in any relationship.
2006-11-25 23:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him........if he says yes dump him
2006-11-25 23:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋