Is my boyfriend cheating with his best friend?

Question

I recently started dating a guy (3 months) We have a long distance relationship (me East coast, Him West ) My bf has a female friend who he has know for about a year, who is also dating someone eles, but their actions are questionable. My bf and this girl spend a LOT of time together (at least once a week). My friends are telling me they have seen them out and they are very touchy, hugs, kisses to the cheek, holding hands ect.
Then there is this a phone thing. He keeps telling me that he has crappy cell phone coverage when he's traveling and can't talk to me. He only posts comments on my MySpace page.
However, someone told me that he is constistently texting his bff, like 5-10 times a day. When I ask him about her he says they are just friends, I dont know what to believe. Should I be concerned?

Answer 1

I'd talk to him, and just ask for his honesty.....just make it clear that NO you ain't gonna get pissed off and bitchy over it.....you really like him, and you just need closure. ONE because if he is...well then they need to be together so YOU can go find someone better....cause that's unfair to YOU because you wanna have fun and hold hands and hug and kiss with somebody too....damn, while you're there suffering without someone, his *** is havin a good time with his lil 'girly friend,' sounds like straight up bullsh*t no? So damn can YOU have fun too? So with all that's been said (i don't trust friends...some say sh*t just to start sh*t misery loves company...remember that.), and with all that you know. Just talk to him, IN A CIVILIZED MANNER DAMMIT...gettin on the phone and goin 4,000 miles an hour about what's he doing, are you cheatin, and all that is gonna start a pointless argument....so be calm, be mature, be a woman, and if he pissy fits, tell him to calm down, be mature, be a MAN..that he THINKS he is (given once a week ain't a lot ...damn....but if he's huggin holdin hand and all that....while you're over there...that' ain't right). And ya'll discuss the issue, you relay your points, get the honest to god truth, and close it. If he says he ain't doing nothing, then take his word for it. Honestly sometimes digging holes will have you fall into one. Cause in all honesty the truth reveals itself eventually, it will show its face BLATANTLY and in your face...so fishing, worrying, asking friends, it's not worth the effort because it's not certified evidence. But it will show itself, because if he's constantly with her....his personality, his ways of doing things with you...will CHANGE....it's inevitable, unless he's a seriously great actor his infidelity will expose itself, especially if he really likes his lil friend, all you got to do is just patiently wait, and enjoy whatever it is he brings that makes you happy.....rather than stress yourself out over drama that you really don't have to do much for it to show...IF that's the case. Do your part and give your trust and your love, God, fate, whatever, will guide you...if he can't do his part, it will show, and then you can take the necessary actions once it's revealed.

Answer 2

I think that this boy might have twisted and split feelings between the two of you. If he denies that he is seeing this girl then take him at his word.

If she is on the rocks with her boyfriend or has broken up with him, you're in trouble.

Answer 3

Time to get rid of him and learned the lesson.

Answer 4

Yep. He's cheating. You should hire a PI. Or a hitman.

Answer 5

it all depends. if he is talking to u more than 35 mins. then no should not
less then you got a cheater

Answer 6

YES BUT U DIDNT HEAR IT FROM ME

Answer 7

you can talk to him about it.