My 15 year old daughter is very violent towards me. She curses me out, beats me up and does whatever she wants. She has beaten me bloody on several occasions. I have been batter, and bruised and have had several concussions over the last few months. My husband says that her actions are just a normal part of growing up and that I should just be happy that she doesn't beat on others the way that she beats on me. He thinks that maybe if I switch deodorant brands, it might calm her down. Should I continue to let my daughter beat me up, or should I kindly ask her to stop??
2006-11-25 15:00:18 · 17 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get her some help before you wound up being killed. This is not normal. I don't know anyone who hits there mom and lives to tell it. What does your brand of deodorant have to do with getting beat up?? Do you stink?
2006-11-25 15:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KINDLY ASK HER TO STOP!!!
Are you on crack??? Get real if I ever tried to so much as hit my mother she would clock me so hard I won't be able to get up. Your daughter shows you no respect and that is unexceptable. And your husband is even worse for allowing it...
You need to get real the next time she hits you tough love needs to be served in the form of the police. Concussions and bruises. She could SERIOUSLY hurt you. And all your doing is asking her to clean her room, something that all mothers do. Your daughter has an anger problem and the longer you ignore it the worse it will get. If you can't do it for yourself do it for her so that she can have a healthy functioning relationship with other people.
2006-11-25 15:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no kindly asking her to stop you make her stop if it continues send her to anger manegement she sounds like she is crazy if i was to every lay a hand on my mom she would go bannaazzzzzzz you are the adult stop acting like a child you have controll not her you need to show her that. Ps this is not normalll behavier for a 15 year old so you need to get a grip talk to some doctors and get you chikld help before she kills you
2006-11-25 15:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what your daughter is doing to you is completely wrong at any age. I'm 13 I would never disrespect my mother in any way no matter how wrong she might be. You need to control your daughter a lot more. Don't be afraid to punish her in a reasonable way. She has to learn to respect you and others. You might also need to get help if you can't do it yourself like from your husband you need to have family meetings regarding this kind of attitude.
2006-11-25 15:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get her help! There is no excuse for a child to put their hands on a parent, none. She is obviously lacking respect for authority. In the state I live in, we have something called CH.I.N.S. which is like a probation the parent puts on a child and the courts help to enforce it. Check if your state has something similar. Have a serious talk with her about her behavior and give her the choice.
2006-11-25 15:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Crys* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world does deodorant have to do with it?? I guess maybe if you switch from Right Guard to Secret she may change and quit kicking your butt but don't hold your breath. Unless of course you choose to not wear deodorant at all.
2006-11-25 15:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by jennikay32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a joke...which i hope it is, because I will tell you letting your kid beat up on you?? I would send her away, no child should treat a parent that way. And get some serious help.
2006-11-25 15:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by pignapper1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your joking, right? You dont actually let your 15 yr old beat you up?
2006-11-25 15:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by coco puffy. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i can not believe that your husband condones this kind of behavior. THAT IS NOT NORMAL. Call the police and have them arrest her butt and get some counseling. I would get rid of your husband.
2006-11-25 15:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope others look at the questions you asked before posting this one.
Perhaps if you spent more time doing charity work than you spend thinking up these moronic prank questions your life would be more rewarding.
2006-11-25 15:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋